Do i need to be jealous to my boy friend's best friend?
his best friend is a girl.. she has a boy friend also..and she is my close friend.
she told me that she loves my boyfriend very much and then,, i didnt say anything because i know that she is his best friend.. i understand that.. .there was a time that she always make sweet things to my boy friend and .. one day ,, were texting.. and she told me that she's having crush on my boy friend.. my boy friend dont know about that ..i was affected,, but id said to my self that they are best friend.. nevermind.. but.. she still making sweet things to him..
2006-11-17 00:29:30 · 7 answers · asked by paula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no you don't need to be jealous TO your boyfriend's best friend.
but you do need to be jealous OF her.
if you use the jealousy the right way it'll help you keep him but it's true; they've got a different relationship that you can't access and it's eventually just down to the quality of your man whether he'll do your wrong or right.
i hope you chose well baby, good luck!
2006-11-17 00:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sometimes good to be jealous then that way you will be aware of anything you think is too far and you will alwys have your eyes open. If you think she goes too far sometime then you should open up to your boyfriend about this and discuss it with him and tell him how you feel. He will probably explain things and keep in mind your feelings in the future then he will know not to go too far with her in the future.
PS there is ofcourse the possibility that she is evil and trying to make you jealoous or testing your friendship but probably not.
2006-11-17 01:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by devltam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was only a friend, then she wouldn't be sending sweet text messages to your boyfriend. Sounds like she is hoping for more. I'd ask her why is she making the moves like a girlfriend when she is supposed to be only a friend.
2006-11-17 00:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I've been in this situation before and it sounds like you need to tell that wench her place. You are going out with him alright? If she wanted him, she should have made the first move instead of trying to take him when CLEARLY you have him. Tell her to back off, if that don't work, make her back off.
2006-11-17 02:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by kineo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are really friends then you have nothing to worry about as my best friend is female and my partner is kool with this, but if this is a newish friendship and she is saying things like that she will take it further it all depends on how he is, i love my friend but not "that" way and never can, can he say that if not then sorry you dont stand a chance, sorry
2006-11-17 01:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by azmondo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r jst best friends so it is ok and by the way wen two people r best friends of the opposite sex then always they love each other as friends and r very close to each other.dont worry.jst hv faith in ur boyfriend.and see that he also gives inportance to u also along with her.even her boyfriend may hv the same feeling wat u got.so its alright.
2006-11-17 02:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by abeeksha0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her. Maybe her feelings run deeper and it is possible she hasn't admitted it to herself.
2006-11-17 01:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋