I'm a married person and have kids. Now my problem is..... A nurse loves me very strongly. Yesterday I had sex with her also. I can't concentrate on my job as well as my family. My lover knows that I'm a married person and still she loves me, and she is ready to live with me as a second wife. But I know if I think that way, my life will spoil. Get m a solution for this problem.
2006-11-17 00:14:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start being faithful or divorce your wife. ()
2006-11-17 00:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in serious trouble. You can't live a double life forever and it not affect you in a destructive way. You messed up and had sex with this girl who knows you are married with children. She says she loves you, but, did she consider your feelings and the trouble she has caused? She thinks of her own selfish wants first. Believe me, if she is in love with you she will consider what is best for you. Somewhere down the road what makes you think she won't get tired and move on to the next one that she might decide she "loves". Be careful what you trade off. What you get in return will pale in comparison and you can never go back and change it. As for now, forgive yourself, ask God's forgiveness and move on without the trouble maker and continue to be a husband as you promised you would and be a good example to your children. Down the road when your physical desire wanes you'll be left with emptiness if you don't tend to your responsibilities first. Good luck.
2006-11-17 08:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Catie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need help, you know you are wrong thats why you are asking for help, since you have realized that then you have the solution, get out of the situation and go bacvk to your family..... what is it about a second wife????? is that possible???
2006-11-17 08:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by evets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋