I’ve recently joined the gym and am currently taking it one day at a time. I’m enjoying it. It makes me feel good.
However, recently I have been noticing something which has alarmed me: the big bodybuilder in the gym seems to have a bit of a crush on me. He stares over at me, and then does a small grunt. Then he’ll bend over, making sure I get full view of his ***. Then he’ll start pumping weights, and then look over again, grunting.
Then he’ll walk by, while still staring at me. I can tell he’s eying me up. This wouldn’t usually be a problem.
But I’m a bloke.
I’m scared if I end in the changing rooms with him on my own, he might try and bum rape me. This would be very easy as well, what with his sheer power and my paltry, diminutive frame.
What should I do?
2006-11-16 22:42:08 · 23 answers · asked by bobby t 3 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
If your instincts make you feel uncomfortable about him stay clear of him. The gut feeling is right alot. Have some pepper spray, careful not to let it go off while exercising. Kick him in the junk, not meant to offend anyone, but a self defense cass is very beneficial regaurdless of size.
2006-11-16 22:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sh*g him! Either that or he is just trying to show off. Thats what the big muscle guys do. They lift weights that are far to heavy for them, and grunt all the time to make sure people look at them. I bet if you watched his form (his lifting) he is not actually doing it correctly, just doing it for attention. Further reply to original question. One of my friends attends a gym, where this guy was doing some bicep work and swinging his whole body whilst lifting. You could see at a glance that he likely to do damage to his lower back. They gym instructor had a word with him and the lifter rectified it. However a couple of days later he was back to doing the same thing again.
2016-05-21 22:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoy that gym, why should you have to leave? It's the responsibility of a gym to assure the safety of it's members. This guy's acting aggressively, whether it's sexual or not. He may be harrassing others and may possibly be on steroids which would cause aggression. Someone at that gym must be in charge that you can speak to. Again, he's in the wrong. Why should you have to leave a place that you like.
2006-11-17 01:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
His behaviour seems pretty aggressive to me and may constitute an assault. You could try and find out a bit about this person(taking care of course). Act according to what you can find out. It may help if you get yourself a training partner and then you can check out this other guy's behaviour on the sly, then compare notes. Take care and think before you act.
2006-11-16 23:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Trixie Bordello 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to friend within earshot of him about a bad case of genital warts you have recently contracted. Although this could end up with him still bumming you but not having the decency to give the "reach around" at the same time.
2006-11-16 23:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Paul E 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Take someone with you to the Gym , Girlfriend , Pal or someone already a memeber , make sure someone else is around. Don,t be afraid just tell him to Piss off . he already knows he is doing wrong.
2006-11-16 23:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am surprised that he fancies anyone other than himself. That sort are usually having an affair with themselves. He could be trying to impress you with his prowess. It could be that you fancy him, and, because you keep staring at him, he keeps looking at you because he can't work out what you are up to.
2006-11-17 03:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you guys are both men maybe you should try talking to him straight up and telling him that you don't flow that way or maybe even stop making eye contact with him because maybe that's giving him the vibe that you feel as he do
2006-11-17 01:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, make sure you shower at home whatever you do. You don't want Ahnuld stomping into the gym's showers and telling you you've dropped your soap! Join another gym or go at a time your musclebound friend isn't there.
2006-11-16 22:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Change the Gym. If you can't, then change your time, don't keep the same time every day. Be in company, not alone in the change room. keep a cell phone handy. Don't have to be scared, just be alert, watchful.
2006-11-16 22:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋