My friend's X recently started getting to know me about a year ago. About 6 months ago, she went up north to study and met someone that she claimed was 'the one'.
After completing her studies she then moved back and last month gave my friend (her X) a 'bday present to remember'.
She just sent me a joke email & her boyf, (who knows nothing because he lives up north) has just clicked 'reply to all' which means Ive now got his email address.
Shall I tell him that she cheated on him? Would you?
2006-11-16 22:19:57 · 45 answers · asked by Wicked Top. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Absolutely. I once sold my paid off home, quit my job, moved hundreds of miles away to live with a man who at the time I thought was perfect. As it turns out, he'd had a girlfriend on the side for four of the five years we were together...including during the time he was pleading with me to buy this awesome house with him. I lost a fortune on that deal when I found out and dumped him. I sure wish someone had told me-all of his friends knew what was going on and kept their mouths shut for all those years.
2006-11-16 22:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by LK 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no way friends are loyal through and through not matter what they do. Whether she is a cheat or not really doesnt have an effect on you, unless you fancy the x. I would keep it to yourself.
It may be different if you knew the new boyfriend and was friends with him also but in this case i just dont think it will benefit anyone if the truth came out
2006-11-16 22:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by jenna p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't tell him but look at yourself and think is this the way you want to live? A bit on the side? Personally if she is cheating on him she will just as easily cheat on you...maybe there is someone else already that you don't know about.....watch over your shoulder buddy!
Also he now knows your email address.....
2006-11-17 03:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by bigbrother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will you gain from doing this?? Will it make you feel good? If you cannot back it up its probly not too good of an idea to bring it out into the open. Something like that a person wants proof.
2006-11-16 22:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its wrong to to that, as it creates notheing other than retalliation. In my opinion a person may be given some time and chance too. You must tel the person not to do and repeat that again. I suppose this will work.
2006-11-16 22:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Paassion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business really, sometimes people are better off not knowing.
My fiance slept with someone while we were on a break and although I was free to do the same the thought of him with someone else broke my heart. I wish he'd NEVER told me!!
2006-11-16 22:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by DippyGirl78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.... I wouldn't. She's nothing to you,.... and neither is her boyfriend. And that would throw your friend in the middle of a mess as well. He's just as bad as she is, cause he did it knowing she had a boyfriend. People can't cheat unless someone's willing to do it with them.
2006-11-16 22:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you call yourself a friend? i think friends like you people dont need. you are prob just jealous coz ur mate is prob better looking than you and her ex (ur friend) still loves her! grow up girl and keep your nose outta her business. thats what a real mate would do anyway. Soz to be so harsh but you gotta see whats right and wrong. and you medaling is wrong.
2006-11-17 03:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheats should always be found out, but there is the old saying, what eye's don't see, the heart doesn't grieve about, so the choice is yours my friend
2006-11-16 22:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do't know the guy then leave it. Don't interfere! She'll get her dues at some point, stuff like that always comes back to bite them on the *** eventually.
2006-11-16 22:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋