My girl told me before we started to date she had a crush with a lesb girl she was hangin around when she was 16, she's 24 now and that girl its her best friend now, she had a boyfriend then, and she told him and he helped her to forget that feeling 'bout her, once this girl stopped talking with my girl, and it made her so sad, it was weird to see her crying 'cause her friend didn't talk to her, I've found comments in blog pages where my girl is like flirting with other girls, and in her myspace she has a lot of lesbian contacts, n' sometimes when we go out I'v noticed she watch a lot other girls, hot girls, i mean a strange stare, what would you think? is she still Bi??
2006-11-16 22:00:01 · 16 answers · asked by rob_sm123 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes she sounds like she's bi. Not a big deal but just remember, a girlfriend is a girlfriend whether she is sleeping with her or not. It's not something you can just throw away, it doesn't surprise me that she got upset. As far as the blogs, girls flirt with everyone regardless of gender...if it's more than innocent though you may want to talk to her about it. Good luck.
2006-11-16 22:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Feelin' Froggy~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've got considered a great form of people with that comparable reaction. often they anticipate that by way of fact the boy is bisexual he's probable a intercourse hoarder or a transsexual (Which some people locate revolting) yet I, in my opinion, locate bisexual boys to be so plenty extra good and eye-catching. On my area of the story although, people think of that myself being bisexual could be revolting jointly as i'm a woman, so consistent with threat it particularly is in simple terms the guy?
2016-10-22 06:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a lot for your sexual curiosities to change... although it's a myth to say that they can't 'change' people aren't bricks that way.
i think you know the answer to your own question.
maybe you meant to ask if you should have a problem with it?
i'd love it if I were you, 'cos you can rate other girls together... I wouldn't even look at it as cheating if she went with someone else, unless she lied about it that would f me off.
yeah, from what you say she's probably bi & I think if you don't help her through this, she'll that female touch so much it might 'interrupt' your relationship. I would take the lead on this one and make a few suggestions to show that I'd like to support her through anything she needs it for!
2006-11-17 00:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say, being gay myself, that she probably is bi. I mean if she cried over her friend then yes and i'd also say she probably still has feelings for her friend but not in a sexual way. As for looking at women while she is out, well if the signs are saying to u that shes prob still bi then ur more than likely right. follow ur instincts my friend, u cant go wrong then. But, saying that, even if she is bi....shes with u so u have nothing to worry about. Worst case scenario...a menage et trois
2006-11-17 00:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be yes, it is something you can not forget,
My idea is to talk with her and give her some peace to do what she likes to do; even you are no satisfy with this situation, I am sure she loves you but sometimes she likes to make love with girls!
2006-11-16 22:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Sprite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, the way that usually works is she'll have you get her pregnant, then go off with the baby and the girl to play house. You can send the monthly check, but may get a black eye if you show up when either of them aren't happy.
Run the other direction, dude.
2006-11-16 23:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, she's probably bisexual. Judging by all the signs, I think she might be even more than that.
2006-11-16 22:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the signs say so. Its her sexual orientation and a person's sexual orientation can never change.But did she really sleep with any girl? Find that too.
2006-11-16 22:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jaded 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she is more than bi.
2006-11-16 22:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by thissoutherngurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes probably just curious - you need to talk to her about it
alot of the time it is female friendship women long for
2006-11-16 22:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by schmushe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋