I think my separated long distant guy loved me, but he wanted me to be live in girl friend without social and family recognition. All our family knows but want to stay away from it. His family are my distant relatives. The dates for divorce kept pushing, I got miserable and stressed. He asked me to pack and come live with him back in June. I rented my house and packed but he took no responsibility and ignored this move. I am not there I dont know what he means. He would be very close and loving if I dont bring his divorce issue. Anyway he still kept saying he loves and wants to marry me. I am so CONFUSED. He does not take any responsibility yet he is saying these things. We havent seen each other for more than 2 months and I finally figured out he does not give me anything emotionally, physically or financially. I told him not to contact me until he is divorced and introduces me to his family. We have no contact now, Will he ever come back or contact me?
2006-11-16 21:57:16 · 7 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A week ago he told me he wants talk to another lawyer and see if he can keep more than half of what his wife is demanding. He does not live with his wife, for a year now. He said he will let me know after the 20th, if he has to give up half he will have to reconsider the divorce, but he will not live with her.
2006-11-16 22:21:26 · update #1
Question is ---Why would you want him back? Find someone that will not be ashamed of you and would be proud to have you around and meet his family and friends. Good luck
2006-11-16 22:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you confused about? I think you did the right thing by telling him not to contact you until he's divorced and introduces you to his family. It sounds like he never had any intention of divorcing his wife and he probably lives with her and just wanted you on the side to use and abuse. He's telling you he loves you and wants to marry you so that you keep sleeping with him. Good luck!
2006-11-16 22:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer a woman, yet i provides some suggestion. does not count why she left (no longer in love, lost spark, he showered her with interest,etc.). they're all excuses. She no longer in undemanding terms cheated on you, yet did so ALL summer long. i'm guessing this could have been planned, as who leaves their companion for an entire summer, just to trip? no longer one which is happy. by using the way, the dozing with you ingredient earlier she left together with her stuff . . . .sympathy/guilt intercourse. She in undemanding terms will come back to you whilst/if she gets dumped by using this guy or realizes he's not as great as she concept. She'll inform you each and every thing you opt for to take heed to approximately how she's replaced and found out how great she had it earlier . . blah, blah. And which will final till she unearths the subsequent guy that fancies her. do no longer enable it take place. evaluate this a 4-5 3 hundred and sixty 5 days mistake/getting to grasp journey and flow on. do no longer enable it become an prolonged one by using taking her back out of worry of no longer being waiting to locate somebody else. have confidence me, you will.
2016-12-30 13:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by burley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has stopped all contact he had no plans of leaving his family and him and his wife maybe back together,move on.
2006-11-16 22:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours. If it doesn't, it never was.....
best of luck.
2006-11-16 22:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Elusive ()Ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a new gf or ready , but he tells me you can be his part time gf
2006-11-16 22:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to forget him, and move on
2006-11-16 22:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋