But I'm afraid my breast will sag if i let the baby drink melk from me. I heard that breast feeding is the best for babies and my boyfriend said he don't think my breast will sag coz I'm still 19. He said that when the baby grow and stop drinking milk from me my boobs will just be same nice. What you think?
2006-11-16 21:51:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ok, your breasts will not be the same. Number one, your only 19. You need to go out and explore life before having a baby, unless there is a medical reason why you need to have them now. But, since I am not your mom I will just answer you initial question...
When you lactate your breasts generally get larger, but not always, and when you are finished, they sometimes go back to the same size they were before, they sometimes stay larger and somethimes they even go smaller. it is hard to tell... it depends on your genetics.
Most women who have larger breasts do tend to sag. And all breasts tend to head south with age, children, weightloss... anything. But dont base childbirth on something as superficial as your boobs. Are you ready for the possibility of a C Section Scar? An apeasiotomy? Streach Marks? 35 to 100 lbs of weight gain? Swolen ankles, diabeties, TSS, Midnight feedings, lack of social life, lack of sleep.. cholicy babies, twins??? As well as able to provide your child with everything it needs or you want to give him/her? Life and Health Insurance? Your 19!!!!! Im 24!!! You cant even go to bars yet!!! Live first, go to school, travel, explore! there is plent of time to be a mom!!!! A baby wont make anything "better" andything "eaiser" or fill any emotional "void". I am not trying to be a mom, just a friend. Good luck in your choices. - PS. Reality shows once you get pregnant... your "Single" friends start to fade away.
2006-11-16 23:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernFaithVa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to live your life a little more before settling down with a baby. You are only 19 and not married so get married and spend time together by yourselves before you start having babies. Then keep in shape during your pregnancy and you can breast feed the baby and pray the lord lets your boobs not sag. I did all this and mine stayed up. My doctor gave me the exercise sheet and a I stayed with it all during my pregnancy. So listen to us old folks stay young as long as you can with kids you have to change your routine. Good Luck
2006-11-17 00:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 32. I've breastfed two babies and I've never had better breasts than I do now. I'm also expecting my third baby but before I even became pregnant this time I had really great breasts compared to what I had when I was younger and before having babies.
I really think that if you're more concerned about the look of your breasts than you are about your child's nutrition then you are probably not mature enough to even think about having a baby. I don't say that to be mean. It is just that a mom should put their child's needs before their own. It doesn't sound like you're ready to do that.
2006-11-16 21:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is different i have 3 kids (i am 30 now) my first at 21 and my 2nd at 25 both times i kept in shape and still had my boobs, the third one i kept my weight off but the boobs didnt survive that time round LOL.
Looking at my kids its worth sacrificing the boobs, nothing a push up bra cant fix :) and if your parter loves you for you then it shouldnt be a problem.Live a little first, although i have no regrets i didnt get to travel or anything when i was younger i was a mum as soon as i left school :)
2006-11-16 22:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breast feeding doesn't cause sagging like everyone thinks. It's the pregnancy hormones that cause the sagging and you can't stop that.
2006-11-16 21:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones kick in and you do what's suited. My spouse breast fed all 3 little ones. the lady grew to become into extra advantageous and didnt prefer it yet for 4 months. Its a great bonding adventure. mom Nature could help decrease your uneasiness. or you ought to use the pump, pump your milk and feed your milk from the bottle. yet i might communicate with a social worker MSW to look at any unresolved themes first. additionally plan the month of your baby, colleges decrease off is in October so which you dont prefer a Oct toddler. If the toddler is provided in beginning up of Dec then you definately get the tax writeoff for that 12 months.
2016-10-22 06:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boobs can sag but also ur young sweetheart enjoy your life to the full thers lots of time for babies when u reach about 25 i was 26 with my first and im glad i waited good luck
2006-11-16 21:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my Mon had 10 kids and breast feeding all off her babies and her breast dint sag
2006-11-16 21:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it all depends on how your body functions if your fit they wont but i don't aye and it depend on the baby and its size my sister didn't breast feed but my other sister did and she hasn't sagged now she had 2 kids at 19 so you know!!!
2006-11-16 22:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by armydoll_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first. You are still too young with your attitude. Wait for ten years or so until you can put the baby first.
2006-11-16 22:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋