My manager has been so nice, so sweet, so caring to me. We become friends. We talk a lot about our family. I cried to him when I got problem with my husband. And he tell me problem between him and his wife. We talk about how we handle our relationship with our husband and wife and our kids. We started to like each other. Until one time we crossed the line. And I don't want that to happen again. But it look like he want us to continue what we started and keep it secret between us. But I can't I wanna Stop and Now I'm Not comportable with him anymore.
2006-11-16 21:19:55 · 23 answers · asked by jhennie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont leave the person you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love!!
2006-11-16 21:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by misyid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the worst kind of person that there is around. The problem is not that you are cheater. The problem is that you don't have anything in your head other than air. Why do you go around telling people about your marriage. Don't you know that is common amongst males that want to get some extra action to make up stories about how bad their marriage is? Don't you know that the best technique is to do it with women that will fall for it and believe that the predator is a person with feelings? Please, you are a cheater...You don't deserve your husband. Do him a favor and run far away with that pathetic manager of yours. By the way, once you do something stupid, it may be better if you don't go around spreading the news.
But was is more stupid in your case is getting involved with your manager... Don't you know that you shouldn't get into relationships at work? Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!! Somebody there?
The best thing that you can do is call the Guiness Book of Records since you maybe in line for some kind of weird record...
2006-11-17 05:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When married man or woman get to close with collegue of opposite sex, there is always a tendency for emotion to build up and gradually spark into big fire.
Be careful, the consequences can be disastrous and painful. Prevention is better than cure. Avoid sharing your family affair to a person of opposite sex, otherwise you will only invite more trouble. You are not only exposing your family problem, but also emotional weaknesses and often it can be easily carried away.
If the thing has already happened, better put to stop. Otherwise unhealthy human concern will only destroy your marriage and family life. Marriage or family problem is best to be shared with your own spouse or close friends of the same sex. Don't let your emotion betray you...
2006-11-17 05:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to save your marriage? Does your husband know? If he doesnt tell your manager the truth tell him you are both married and what happened between yah was a moment of weakness..and it should not have happened tell him the truth and if this does not work then just start looking for another job....Dont do it again if you are feeling bad about this dont do it again....
2006-11-17 07:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by melanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there...that's the saddest thing that ever happened to me. My conscience almost killed me. After that,i went on with my life,changed everything in me,turned away from evil. since then, i was so scared to even lie. You can do it because you will not be cheating your husband alone,that includes you and the people around you.What's good about this is you are admitting to yourself that you have done something wrong,and that is a good sign tat you will be better.Good Luck
2006-11-17 05:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Martha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be made to watch as your "husband" is with another woman, maybe then you will have a value on your marriage. You can't go back, in your mind your cheating is always there and it appears you only think of yourself. How long before the "next" affair? You have many answers here, I can't say anything nice.
2006-11-17 05:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him the truth....it was a mistake you don't want to have an affair that he's a great guy and if that is what he wants than he could find it anywhere...BTW what you both did with the chit chat talking about partners was an emotional affair just as good....
2006-11-17 05:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him bluntly that it was a terrible mistake you made, that you regret your actions and that you need to forget that the incident ever happened. If he is human he will agree, but if he insists on continuing an affair, then find another job.
2006-11-17 05:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by HM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so then stop! its totally up to u..if u really love ur husband and kids then u have to stop for the sake of them. dont let ur children suffer in the end. believe me, i know how it feels when u find out ur father or mother is having an affair. the child suffers the most. dont be selfish by satisfying ur own desires. ur now married so u have to think abt ur husband and ur kids. its no longer abt u.
2006-11-17 05:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well baby actually he trapped u, he mgt not be having ne such stories that he told u abt his family and his wife,,,,actually u were in the same situation so he tried to manipulate you by creating a situation that you wud be most interested in listening to....and wen he cud manage having a realtionship wid u he actually succeeded.....and now he doesnt want to let u go
2006-11-17 05:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋