I got married 6 months ago.My sister-in-law is 10 yrs elder to me .Her behavior towards me is very funny.She always wants to show that she is better than me.Even if someone praises me she doesnt like it and reacts to it indirectly.She is very sarcastic. My In laws like her a lot. They are good towards me too. I get so upset sometimes that I feel like giving it back to her, but am scared where is will spoil my relationship with my inlaws.
2006-11-16 21:03:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just wait and watch for right time.
at the right time u just finish him out from ur life
2006-11-16 21:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by mukku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the bigest problem in India.
By the way who knows , if your Sister in LAW have the same complin as desribed about you?
The rule for a good human , let it me men or women , it is your job to do the good thing, never expect any return form others , you do your job , if you are honest .
You will never feel bad , if you can start stop expecting some thing form others.
2006-11-16 22:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by swa_rup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dealt with it fairly nicely.... I recommend conversing on your husband appropriate to the placement while he returns and communicate on your in-rules approximately it asap.. they are able to interceed in explaining what the word ability and how it relatively is use is hurtful without inflicting greater ruffled feathers.. Watch your daughter touch with this sister-in-regulation heavily as she may be coaching your toddler different issues you do no longer approve of.. in the adventure that your in-rules won't interceed wait till your husband returns and characteristic him interceed.. Doing it your self inclusive of your thoughts so extreme (Understandably) would desire to bring about a combat that would desire to be prevented if a possibility.. you do no longer prefer to reason a kin rift you in effortless terms choose your SIL to stop utilising racist hateful words in the presence of your daughter and particularly attempting to coach your daughter those words.. Wait some days to kick back down and write your SIL a letter clarify calmly what the word ability and how that's racist and derogatory.. Wait some greater days, reread and edit the letter so which you're specific what you deliver is what you recommend... stable success
2016-10-15 16:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by sabra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she is just plain jealous of you, perhaps you are prettier than her or you may have better academic qualification than her. Other reason may be she takes you as a threat to her status in the family. For the time being ignore her behaviour, let it go for another 6 months. Meanwhile you try to get the other members in the family to be your side. Once you have a stronger backing, perhaps than you could talk back to her.
2006-11-16 21:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to marriage my friend... you can choose your spouse, their family is thrown in at no extra charge! Just remember that you love your spouse, so take the high road and deal with it. It sounds to me like she might be a little jealous of you being new in their family and changing the dynamic up a bit. These things tend to get better over time. Hell, when my sister in law is not in a relationship she flirts with me... how uncomfortable is that! It will all work out, just don't let her antics change who you are or your life with your spouse... good luck!
2006-11-16 21:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just ignore her and enjoy your married life.these are the golden days of your life dear i am telling you will not come back.just forget about anything thats annoying and cherish your relationship .forget every thing just think about ur newly found love.this girl is quite immature so let her say whatevershe likes.be a bit patient and go to anyother place when she is engaged in her foolish behavior.WISHING U A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.
2006-11-17 03:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever she makes a snarky remark about you or to you, just give her a really innocent, wide-eyed stare and say loudly: "Now why on earth would you say that to me???" This will put her on the spot nicely and will take the fun out of putting you down.
2006-11-16 21:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't react. Don't show you are affected by her antics. She will broil in her anger when she sees you are unaffected. Don't allow her to ruin your day. Show her no matter what she does, you remain the same. It will P-----d her off that she can't get you mad. Soon your in laws will come to know how mean she is.
2006-11-17 05:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, fight nastiness with niceness. She wants you to make a show of fighting with her so that others will not like you, she is a very insecure person and feels life is a popularity poll. Forget her. She is not important, be yourself to your inlaws, that is all that matters.
2006-11-16 21:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just plain ignore her. Dont give her the chance to get a upper hand. things will become normal when in frustation she will get exposed
2006-11-17 05:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Naresh C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all , make sure your hubby is aware of this.well jealously is common in joint family. Best solution would be for you to win her heart, and well as a girl you know how... who knows you both may become the best friends
2006-11-16 22:39:32 · answer #11 · answered by Rajaganapathy (Guns) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋