I've read a few posts here on Yahoo! Answers that if a woman loves her man she would fake the orgasm?
Why would you do that?
How many women actually fake it?
Married on just in a strong Relationship?
Please be honest. It really intrests me.
2006-11-16 21:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am truthful. If for some odd reason I can't, I will say "I don't know what has happened to me". I wouldn't fake it, then that would be cheating myself + lying to him.
Honesty is the best way to go.
God bless!
2006-11-17 09:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't read other answers here. If a man has had past sexual relations and satisfied the woman into orgasms, and then he can't make you have one the same way,it can make him doubt his manhood and think he will never satisfy you and you in time would cheat on him, thus the man may leave soon. I think this is the reason. Dominate women do not fake it, unless they want something in return. Since there are so few real virgins anymore in this country, if he can't satisfy you, he may think you have been with too many others. There are those women that do not have orgasms or not yet, so I assume they fake it to assure that man will stay for them. Is it right or wrong?
2006-11-17 05:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answering as a mere male...
Why would you do that?
- To make your man get the Hell off you, I guess. I suggest that women, like men, start getting anxious if something isn't working for them and that the anxiety can build to a level where it interferes. You either change tactics or stop trying. Sometimes you just have to cut your loses and sooth the male ego... (I'm not saying it's the best solution, but who am I to be reasonable in the face of female logic?)
How many women actually fake it?
- Not a clue, since men have such fragile egos and are never really told. I personally respect a woman more if she says, "That isn't working for me", because then I have the option of shifting my focus to see to her needs, or owing her one in a future session. However, how would I know the difference between the fake and the real thing if I was never told?
Married on just in a strong Relationship?
- It may be a case of either/or. Ideally, you chosen sex partner knows how to pleasure you, or can at least be taught. While committed relationships lend themselves to this, everyone brings their own experiences and expertise to sexual relations. Whether you communicate your needs to your partner or tell a little white lie is up to you...
As a mere male, this is all speculation...
2006-11-17 05:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by keltarr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay - these questions always tick me off!
What man in his right mind would want his woman to fake it? I've been married for over 30 years, and I would much rather my wife tell me she's too stressed, or too tired, or ? than try to fake it.
Sometimes it just take a little extra effort on my part to help her over the edge. I'm DELIGHTED to do whatever it takes. I can't imagine a physical relationship that is built on a lie...
I've only had one relationship in my life where I had a woman try to fake it. Once I figured it out, I sat her down and we had a very frank talk about her needs. We fixed the problem right away and she NEVER had to fake it again.
I had the same discussion with my wife before we were married just to make sure she understood I was willing to go the extra mile for her and expected honesty in our relationship at all levels.
2006-11-17 11:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tim B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for almost an year now and i never faked anything.. and i cannot understand the women who can do that.. faking is lying actually, and if you really love someone and that person loves you back you have to always say the truth. but, of course, it depends on the person you are married to. my husband is very much in love with me, and not the fact that he tells me matters, but the way he shows it to me.. and by that i don`t mean the hugs, and sweet kisses or the actual facts..that counts to of course, but i know it from the way he makes love to me and the way he touches me. if he is distracted or tired, he always tells me that we should leave it for another time that our special time together won`t be destroyed ... i often think that if it were for another man, maybe more selfish, i would not be able to stay and lie in that relationship.. sooner or later they will know if we are lying, and they would consider that a treason.. my message is to all of you that are usually doing this.. lying to your men.. stop it or it will ruin your relationship!
Dora
2006-11-17 05:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was married I had to fake it a couple times. Take one for the team!
2006-11-17 05:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends....like some guys won't quit till you whoo hoo and some will understand you just can't woo hoo tonight stress or something so if you had a non quitter fake it marathon sex is good but not 5 times a week.
2006-11-17 05:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just want to save your energy and make you happy, nothing is dishonest about that
2006-11-17 05:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋