I've fallen in love... I didn't mean to. It's just not the right time in my life. (I have 1 daughter finishing her 5th year of collage, 10 hours from home. And A 13 year old daughter at home. Our relationship is wonderful. I could do this for the next 5 years(or forever). We've been dating for 3 years. I love him, but he dosn't believe he loves me. how can I make myself fallout of love?
2006-11-16 20:37:49 · 9 answers · asked by idunnono 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You want to fall out of love? Marry him!
Ok, seriously, if he doesn't believe he loves you that's not good. Even if you're willing to just do this dating thing forever, how is being lonely in love good for you? Do you expect he'll learn to love you? I know it's convenient to not have anyone trying to tie you down given where you are in life, but at the same time when the kids are all gone, what will be left? Wouldn't you want to spend your life with someone who feels the same way you do?
Maybe you just tell him that, and stop spending so much time together so you can both think about it. Maybe the answer will come to you then
2006-11-16 21:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to distance yourself some and do the things you were doing b4 you met. If he's not sure, then he's scared or just doesn't feel the same. Either you know if you're in love or you know if you're not. Bottom line. There should be no confusion. Love is the heart and not the brain.
2006-11-16 21:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make yourself fall out of love. If he isn't in love with you after 3 years you are wasting your time dear. You need to make a clean break and let go of him. How can your relationship be wonderful if the other person involved is not in love with you?? If you can make a clean break, your heart will break also. And in time it will heal and you will be able to move on. Best of luck!
2006-11-16 21:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by ddbach1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, hon...it's almost impossible to make yourself fall out of love in the beginning especially.....BUT....what you need to do is start realizing that if this guy don't truly love you, then you ultimately would be wasting yourself on him....I know it's hard and I empathize with you, I really do...falling out of love is hard.....but try to concentrate on your schooling...hobbies.....get out with your friends and possibly you will meet someone new....break free from this guy hon, he's not the right one for you obviously....and I know it's heartbreaking but time heals..and you will be over him before you know it.....my best wishes and blessings to you!!
2006-11-16 21:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnotize yourself into having a dream in which he is cheating on you with some other woman, and then you will wake up so angry with him because it seemed so real, that you will tell him to stay the heck out of your life.
2006-11-16 20:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy just tell yourself the truth he said he didn't love you he is using you and although you think this is great you deserve better and go get it girl find better find a guy who adores you...
2006-11-16 20:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Replace him. You'll get over it. (Young, pretty, stupid, boy-toys make it easy)
2006-11-16 20:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by OldCripsWife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to marry you and see what he says
2006-11-16 20:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
catch him cheating, worked for me..
2006-11-16 20:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by next.... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋