I noticed the men will answer YES to this and women will answer NO to this. Which is the right answer? Explain please.
2006-11-16 19:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
My opinion is there are 2 types of woman, some are stuck in the fairy tale story of true love and happy ever after, and the other is woman who are more worried about security and the future than love. Me personally I would take the money, I would not date or marry a man who does not have money. I think it is stupid, all the crap about for better or for worst in my mind is nonsense. Who in their right mind is going to marry a bum? Me, I don't understand that one. I
I am a woman, and I would say yes, you need money, but most of my female friends would answer differently. It worked for me, I have a wonderful husband, whom I love, but we would have never made it to second date if it was not well-to-do.
2006-11-16 23:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by newfie272 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you don't need a lot of money to "get" a beautiful girlfriend. Money tends to help for a lot of guys who are lacking in the personality department. Start by treating them as people, as friends. When you objectify someone you have just set yourself up as a jerk. Women today want someone to talk with them to be a partner not as an object.
Another piece to remember is that women today do not need to be saved. No damsel in distress syndrome. What women want is someone to go through the effort. If a women is responsive to your attentions keep giving them, but you are the one who will have to go through the effort. The effort you exert is the measure of your love.
Now having said that attraction between two people, a lot of the time, is like two magnets. Make North the attractor and South the repulsor. Place your magnet at a certain distance from another and the other magnet will dance, or move around a little bit. If you push the north to another magnet too fast the south end flips around and the two magnets smack together. The result in the relationship you were trying to start ends up with strong attraction receives strong repulsion, or Strong North receives strong South.
The net effect is that if you keep your intentions there she will notice, but if you come on strong she will be repulsed.
2006-11-17 07:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men answer yes because that is what they believe to be true. women answer no because it isn't true. but in reality both are right because it depends on what kind of girlfriend you want. do you want a gold digger? or do you want a woman who is independent and is not going to rely on your money to get what she wants in life? having a job and a home and being able to support yourself is what most women look at. but there are the gold diggers who want to be taken care of those women are only after one thing and it isn't love. if a girl wants to go out with you it should be about your personality not your money. i wouldn't want to go out with someone who couldn't take care of himself. and if he could and had a hard time doing it i wouldn't pass up a chance for happiness because lack of money. now days it takes two to make a living,and if one party isn't for that then a relationship would be hard. so i say if you had money you could get a girlfriend. and remember beauty is only skin deep.and to a lot of people its about looks. do you have what it takes to get a beautiful girlfriend? and again why do you have to have a beautiful girlfriend? pretty is better, personality is even better, and whats inside out weighs everything else.
2006-11-17 08:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by pam m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joe doesn't know what he's talking about. No you don't need a lot of money to get a beautiful girlfriend. Go buy the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss and also "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo and you will get girls you never dreamed of. Its a PUA technique called "Cocky and Funny" and it works like a charm
2006-11-17 12:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you need a personality and character that is in line with the females. Don't be shy, next time you encounter a women you find appealing and beautiful. Approach her.God bless*
2006-11-17 07:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, like it or not, it depends a lot on how good looking you are.
Some goofy looking guys manage to pitch their tent with a knockout, but believe me, it's a hell of a lot harder than it is for a handsome guy.
If you are trying to nail one several levels up from you in the looks department, having a lot of dough would certainly be helpful.
It's not impossible for a poor, ugly guy to bag a 10, but he'd better be one smooth, practiced, brilliant, outrageously funny modern-day Cyranno type.
You didn't say if you cared whether she had any brains or not, so I didn't address that aspect.
2006-11-17 07:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
am a woman & i say yes too...but if its just beauty superficial...u cant buy a gem heart ...ever...& no money can make u be liked by the gem hearts....its nice to be wealthy but it depends how u use that wealth......its just that simple
2006-11-17 12:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by chcuda9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in some cases yes n in some is no..becoz some gals just want true love while other wants a wealthy man who fillfull thier wishes ..give them gifts..take them 4 shoping etc....i personly want true love:P
2006-11-17 06:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by karabiner 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but you'll need it to keep her ;)
2006-11-18 10:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jez 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Just a big dong.
2006-11-17 07:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋