I always had alot of guy friends in school. I thought it was easier being friends with them because they are not competing against you. Now I still don't have many female friends, and I don't know why. Like earlier when I asked a Q about females being more up tight about what alot find vulger or repulsive, anyway, I got alot of b*tchy answers. Do you find it hard to relate to other women sometimes?
2006-11-16 18:52:58 · 23 answers · asked by bown 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes it is! I have always had more guy friends than girls! Guys keep it simple! They don't care if your hair looks better than theirs or if you got the better deal on your new outfit!
2006-11-17 00:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I always found it easier to befriend other women because I would end up liking them and it would be awkward or more often, men usually only pretended to be your friends to get into your pants...but as I grew older, I did start noticing that a lot of women were fake and were trying to compete with me over men, which was strange because I'm not competitive at all in that department as my mentality is if he wants me he wants me and I will in no way compete with another woman for a man especially when there are too many men willing to compete over me. So now I just stick to a few women/ men who will have my back at all times and I'm satisfied.
2006-11-16 19:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes , and yes!
Being a loner and having "traditional male" jobs I have spent most of my work life around males. My ex hubby was not much a worker and stayed at home most of our married life (remember ex lol).
Anyhoo teaching a typical women to work machinery, maintenance of the machinery or even teaching one to sweep the floor so the dust does not go up into everyones faces, or to carry a long board so you do not hit someone in the face is a HUGE chore!
Oh heavens forbid you talk to one of the guys (you need material from) and there girlfriends see! Then you get the women who suck up, this is one of my pet peeves! There are so many women out there who feel they can flirt or find a way to go out with the boss, until they find out the boss is a women and that is not going to work!
Anyhoo not only work. Some women are so insecure any women who is around is a competition!
I worked for a couple months at a second job as a cashier. I rang up this guys order just did my thing. A couple hours later I get this phone call saying "are you that blond chick, you best not talk to my husband again". She continued to say how she was going to be waiting for me at my car when I got off work at gosh 2 am or so. The security showed up and did his thing for security there was high......Shoot at the time I would not have minded to get out some frustrations (I was NOT shaking in my boots in other words lol)....Young back then, working two jobs raising kids.
One job I went through a pregnancy there, all the guys were so protective of me lol! My ex did not know what to think of it...
Anyhoo you are not the only one! It may feel lonely for female talk but found out the computer is good for this :0) Most men do not want to hear of our periods or other women issues. ......
2006-11-16 19:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it very hard. I like you have always got along with the guys rather than the girls. I had more guy friends in school than girlfriends. That made it even harder to make girlfriends because the girls were mad that all the guys talked to me. They called me a slut or treated me badly because they thought that the only way a girl could have that many friends that were guys was that she was sleeping with all of them. Most girls that I have met are very up tight and very competitive. I still find that I have more guy friends than girl friends. And I'm ok with it and if anyone has a problem with it that's there problem. I'm happy and that's all that matters to me.
2006-11-16 19:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always had more male friends..they are so much easier to deal with.. I have about 5 close female friends and the rest I consider associates..Women are not to be trusted for the most part and the drama I can do without!!
Guys look at me like I am crazy when I tell them how manipulative/evil/backstabbing/2faced women really are.
I have 1daughter 2sons and 3stepsons and I have seen a-lot of that stuff already surfacing from my 9 yr. old daughter..All the boys are pretty straight up!! I swear it starts at birth and evolves from there!!
2006-11-16 19:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea women get too jealous too easily and for no reason if you ask me. We each bring something different to the table. I tend to stay away from that. As far as friends go, I have one female friend and she is so two faced it is unbelievable. I can't talk to her seriously about anything! My best friend is a guy, we are both 21 and we talk about everything from his girlfriend to my husband. He actually calls me instead of his girlfriend every night before he goes to bed. We have a great friendship that I don't think I could find with any female. Great question. God bless.
2006-11-16 19:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't see what the problem is in this scenario. She is 18, it's not like she never saw a penis before or saw a "R" rated movie. Lmao. Just calm down dude cuz I think ur just overreacting about it. And she probably does like you or at least somewhat interested in your package haha. She gave you a hug when she knew you were hard...I'm positive that's a sign. So don't sweat it that much.
2016-05-21 22:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, honestly I have 0 female friends. I have never ever got along with girls. They are always sooo mean. Even just walking through the mall shopping girls randomly say "b-tch" and other stuff. I modeled when I was in HS and everything so the other girls haaaaaaated me because of it. So I have always been "one of the guys" basically which kinda sucks beause I see my guy friends as brothers.. So no dates ever happening there!
2006-11-16 19:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my fellow females. I just find men are easier friends. They are simple creatures that say what they mean. I can love them and not fear that they will become jealous or petty. Women are by and large either drama queens or jealous and catty..or worse yet..a combination. However, when you find a woman that is self confident, mature and warm hearted...THAT is the best friend you can have.
2006-11-16 19:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but many women like to cut eachother down. It's not good. I don't know why we are that way but that's how women are. Not all women, mind you. Real friends are hard to find. Good luck. I would love to be your friend.
2006-11-16 18:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by mexicansuck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋