I changed my phone number and she hasn't called since... but now co-workers are telling me she is peeking in the windows at work looking for me & I don't feel safe out in public. She hasn't directly threatened me, but I feel harassed. He and I are done and over with and I just want her to leave me alone. What can I do? Do I need more substantial evidence that I'm being harassed than this? Or are the witnessess at work enough? How much does it cost to get a restraining order?
2006-11-16 18:39:56 · 19 answers · asked by daitheflu99 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
You DO have legal recourse, regardless of anything you may have done to pizz her off. She might just blow away if you were to confront her and answer her questions and take her hostile comments so she she could get it out of her system. Then again, she could cut the brake cables on your car. Obviously she is obsessed with knowing fine details about who you are, and is in a poor state of mental health. Such people can be very dangerous. Get in touch with local law enforcement now and ask them what can be done. Your coworkers are witnesses. The police are there to protect you, not to judge you.
2006-11-16 18:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well i doubt you can get a restraining order BC she has not threaten you. just a mere inconvenience BC she can go to your work it is most likely a public place is it not. so i would just confront her and tell her to stop it you are no longer with her husband it is done and over with and that you are no longer going to be with her husband and to leave you alone and just to blow smoke tell her if she does not stop that you will get the cops and lawyers involved. that should stop her she is probably just trying to intimidate you by doing these stupid things. When you do confront her have a witness with you in case she does threaten you then you can get that restraining order against her.
2006-11-16 18:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have kept your knickers out of her life for a start.
I feel she is justified in harrassing you. After all you put yourself in her life and she did not put herself in your life. Before you say he and I are done with you should have spent a little time thinking of the repercussions for both him and for yourself. There is a word, starts with 'S' to describe women like you but I can't quite think of it now. A restraining order will not stop her hiring a hit man to deal with you so beware.
I hope you get whatever you deserve.
Stop playing the victim OK!!
2006-11-16 18:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
rather you will desire to communicate with a criminal expert, to verify what rules have been violated and what you will desire to do. additionally he would desire to offer each and every of the presents back. He doesnt choose them and that they seem to be a relentless reminder of infedelity in the marriage. Mabey if she gets the presents back she will pass away, because of the fact she would be satisfied. communicate along with her back. Dont snigger at her. Be trustworthy and tell her you like your husband and you're a kin and are going to continuously stay mutually. tell her that she is being a homewrecker and needs to locate a guy who doesnt already have a women human beings. additionally do pass to counceling with him. in case you like one yet another and are desperate to artwork it out you will desire to adress your issues. Dont permit him off the hook to actual. Make him teach he's trustworthy. stable success. you're a stable women people who has persevered plenty. it gets greater stable earlier it gets much less confusing.
2016-10-15 16:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by sabra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get a restraining order if she has threatened you or if you feel like your life is in danger. But I think they can get her for tresspassing if she is at your job and doesnt have a reason. And yes I'd have to agree with the above commenters that you are totally wrong for sleeping with him and that is what you get. Maybe you'll think twice next time before screwing a married man. Karma is a dirty little whore.
2006-11-16 18:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Adrianna Christens 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have two issues here. The one is moral and the second is legal.
One contributing to the other, obviously. Moral error is not a legal issue.
If the affair is over, her answers are required of the husband. You call her and simply state with polite force, "No more," or you will seek legal action. In the future be a bit more introspective, so much more simple, isn't it?
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2006-11-16 21:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by ipygmalion 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
uh ok u are the mistress u are no one. and if u don't like it stop messing with married men and being a home wrecker........i don't blame her for harrassing i would too if i were her! i don't understand why u play the victim in this case cuz u definately aren't.
2006-11-16 20:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by chica™ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. But it does give you the right to wear a target. That way when she shoots you she can better find your heart as it is obvious you don't have one. If you did, you wouldn't be having an affair with a married man. You are causing HER pain and anguish by what you are doing. Her husband is a pig too. But knowing he is married, you should now just back away. I hope she give you hell. I would.
2006-11-16 18:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 4⤊ 4⤋
It maybe over and done with to you but to the wife it is a continous knife twisting. She wants to know who 'the other woman was'.
You should put your feet into her shoes, wouldn't you want to know?
If you go to a lawyer you'd be able to get advice, best place to go rather than get peoples nasty comments in here.
2006-11-16 19:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by WW 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You deserve her cheating husband. I hope kids weren't involved. Maybe she should move on and find a decent man!
2006-11-16 18:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋