Semi personal question...?

Question

I have an odd question, but I'll get right to it.

I am 18 years of age, and yet, I don't really have the 'fixation' on sex or whatever. I'll be honest, yes, I do look at the other sex's bodies (glances, not checking them fully out) and stuff, but I don't get horny. I know I'm much more mature than a lot of other men, but i'm wondering if I am too mature, too early or something..

by the way, yes, I am interested in a relationship with the other sex.

Answer 1

i wouldn't think its because you're 'too mature'. i think its more because either:

a) you havent found the one person that really gets your gears in motion or
b) you are not at your sexual peak or
c) you're not a walking hardon like most guys your age. hehe.

i know exactly what you mean, ive been there and i also think my sexual drive is not that high in general, unless i'm with someone special. if you have no problem getting aroused when you DO feel like it, there's no problem. just dont worry about it and go with the flow. you'll see everything will change over time and when you see that special someone!

Answer 2

Have the doctor test your testosterone level to see if it is high enough, you may need to take shots. Have your blood sugar checked as this affects your nerves. Get screened for depression as this can affect you in many ways. Best of luck to you!!

Answer 3

Have you got a wet dream yet? If yes, with whom did you get there? (I mean, you got with the girl or guy?)
Sorry, I'm not judging you, but what conditions are able to make you horny?
May be, you're just tired.

Answer 4

your maturity isnt a bad thing..
i think that you have no real problem..
you see what you like, but maybe, you need a mental connection..
so.. my advice to you, (if you are searching for a relationship), is to find someone that you are not only physically attracted to, but also mentally..
since you're so mature, maybe you're turned on by people who are also quite mature..

i hope my advice is helpful to you..

good luck,
-kay

Answer 5

it sounds to me that there could be two issues here.

first one is that you could be gay but since you are young you are still trying to sub-conconsiously work out your own sexuality.

the other thing is that you may have a deficiency in testosterone. This can easily be fixed by having testosterone injections from your GP or your gym instructors.

Answer 6

You're partially autistic. Probobly asperger's syndrome. Also, you have a domineering mother, an emotionally distant father, and an unrealistic assesment of the self and the other.

Answer 7

its really okay !

seems your not interested in any one your interested in being with THE ONE ! and that's really great :)
or may be your a late bloomer and those are the best

and your gonna be a one girls guy ( which is really rear these days :) )

your gonna be with a really lucky lady one day and hope she would know how lucky she is.

have a nice night and wishing you all the luck

Answer 8

It dosen't sound like you have a problem. However, if you read and believe some of the answers given here I think you would have a problem.

Answer 9

Ooh, that grew to become into warm and steamy and eye-catching! i'm loving the way you convey us in with "i prefer to kiss you and roll on the floor" and end an identical way "i prefer to kiss you and lay in the process your international". Have me from the 2d you open up. the lack of ability of punctuation and capitalization is great as nicely. It makes it as one great long thought. very great. ^_^

Answer 10

Looking at naked pictures of ladies vs naked pictures of guys, which one does it make you arouse ?

The problem may lies on this.