neither a good human nor a friend- how do we deal with such persons?

Answer 1

you let them dig their own graves. i used to stress about "changing people" and trying to get people to be kind to me, and what i have learned is that people like the above described will be how they want to be regardless of what you do. i say take care of you, and let whomever you are dealing with bathe in their own misery.

Answer 2

Certainly don't get emotionally involved. There are people beyond our circle of influence. Don't put yourself on the line. Know that a not-good human is not a good friend, or good to have as a friend. Wish them well, forgive them, and stay away from them if you can.

If, however, they are someone you are compelled to be with or around, (in office/ college), then keep interaction minimal, and let them know through your attitude that you know exactly what they are upto. And then move on.

Answer 3

Just dont keep any relationship vit such persons

Answer 4

the easiest way to deal with such persons is to behave properly with them so they can try to copy you.

Answer 5

Firmly,
respectfully,
shortly, seriously - no jokes or stuff as with a friend.
Say as you would a judge, or bank manager, or police officer.
Unsure nature of interaction with this human, so keep all personal questions and answers to hers/his off limits - until you are friendly and know humans nature. (?)

Answer 6

just ignore them thats the best way to deal with people like that!

Answer 7

Stay away from them, if possible.

Answer 8

keep most formal relations. say" i know him but cannot certify him".