I spent my teen yrs in all girls school and when i went to co-ed school , I used to go from side whenever the guys was having their group discussion . I was just so scared and i am just so scared now . I don't know what girls talk to guys . I never had boyfriend and even my father wasn,t there for me at that time ( b,coz he died long ago, when I was in grade 4). Now , I have my step-father who is conservative . I dont want to have boyfriend but I should feel confident to talk to guys too.
2006-11-16 17:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by dishakr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
things may be intimidating because many girls have different interests than guys, which makes for a very limited selection of topics to talk about. Some topics include music, movies, sports (if you're into sports), travel, food... But I guess having a topic won't help very much unless you open up a little bit. It's hard to break the ice at first and it will take time. Maybe start off by just smiling and saying hi to a guy. If he takes the initiative and opens a conversation, then just go along with it. If he just kind of smiles back in a shy way, just stick your hand out and introduce yourself. It does take a while to get comfortable, but if you think about it logically, you have nothing to lose from this. A guy wouldn't be turned off to a friendly face. And the best way to make a friend is to be friendly :)
good luck!
2006-11-16 18:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you would talk to anyone. If you are not trying to get romanticly involved then simply talk. Pick a subject you like and you think he likes and go for it. The first couple times will be the hardest as you are not used to reading male body language and as you have probably already seen it is different. Take your time and let your thoughts wander and soon they will start coming out of your mouth and in the direction you want them to go to.
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2006-11-16 22:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Texas Tiger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be a bit difficult at the beginning to talk to guys but then later on u'l feel u can't stop talking to them
easiest way is start talking to ur classmates on some study topics or say hi or something like that
theres no need to b scared of guys they r not gonna eat u up
maybe group study or group disscusions cud help
2006-11-16 18:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of know ohow you feel...I spent more than five years in an all-girls school. Maybe you should also try to be friends with girls who have guy friends. That way, you get used to them, and you could make guy friends of your own, not necessarily boyfriends.
2006-11-16 18:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a male classmate and start discussing issues relating to your courses, or maybe you can try hanging out with some friends and learn from them
2006-11-16 18:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by swing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk like you type then no wonder. - I haven't read such bad grammar, punctuation and general sentence formation for a long time.
Girl, you better look good to make up for that.
2006-11-16 18:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to your lesbianism
2006-11-16 18:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋