Okay, i've been with my boyfriend/fiance for almost 3 years, and i feel like I dont give him any time to himself. I wont let him talk to other girls, I get jealous very easily...I am very insecure about myself...I feel like if I let him go somewhere by himself, he'll leave me for someone better...He says he wont, b/c he loves me and no one can match up to me..but its the thought that scares me the most. I go every where with him, and I'm with him 24/7...I've never felt this way about any of my ex's....I dont know why I'm acting like this with him...If he even looks at another girl, or says anything about another girl..i get irate, and I go off on him...I need help, and to know what is wrong with me and why I am acting like this...!
To make an upside down question mark: hold alt and 1,6,8.....Everyones been asking...!
2006-11-16 16:33:14 · 14 answers · asked by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you do seem obsessive about him.. but you do need help with appreciating his honesty and his love for you. Asking for help is not bad it actuallys helps you sort your queries much better.
my boyfriend and i are in a long distant relationship i have to trust him... its agonising at times but i have to compensate to look at the bigger picture and that is a life long bond... and so should you!
small details you prey upon turn into bigger issues and THAT heavily afftects you try not too...
but if it still persists see someone, dealing with emotions can never be too late. goodluck chikey dee!
2006-11-16 20:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 22:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's wierd me and my fiance went through the same thing and I had never been that way with anyone EVER either. But me and him broke up the other day which does make me wonder if my next relationship will be the same or like it used to be with my exes.
P.S. he didn't dump me for that reason but I'm sure that didn't help when he made the decision. I think as much as it seems these guys are the one they aren't because it's not healthy for him or you. I know I was always stressing myself out over it. Good Luck! I hope everything works out for you!
2006-11-16 16:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to try to trust him a little more because if you keep holding him back and going everywhere with him that might scare him off give him a little space ask him not to look at other girls infront of you or comment on them but lettting him hang with his own friends without you being there wouldn't be so bad honey
2006-11-16 19:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Hun, crowding him may make him a little mad from time to time. I for one know you love him and thats why you need to give him some space. Try a little at a time beginning so that you can get use to it. You have to trust that his love for you is as strong as he says. I dont wanna see you get hurt i love you too much to see you go through that so im telling you to give him some space. He isnt going anywhere he loves you and that beautiful daughter of yours WAY too much.
2006-11-18 08:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Beautifully*Chaotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chubz i get jealous much like u and am always with my boy, but you just got to try to step back, and think about how much you love him, and that continuing that way may make him start to not love you anymore, and if he goes out and finds someone else.. in the end, thats life and you move on and were better off without him...
2006-11-16 18:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been married for over thirty years and the way that we made it this far was through trust, and respect for one another. Try it, or lose him. It's that simple.
2006-11-16 16:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound controlling to me... you need to get a grip. this guy is not gonna stay forever if you get mad at him everytime he leaves, looks at another girl etc. if this guy was doing it to you, it would be considered abuse. lay off, give him his space, before you lose him!!!!!
btw, i tried the alt 168 thing, but is didn't work!
2006-11-17 03:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea just a little. Step back and give him space.. Smothering is bad
2006-11-17 00:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just worried b/c you want to be #1 in his life. But think of it this way: you're the one he's ingaged to, therefore YOU'RE the one he wants to be with. Try trusting him. If he wanted to be with someone else he would be.
2006-11-17 05:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋