how can i get over the death of my dad when know i just lost my mom almost one year to the day after my dad pa

Question

st away and my sisters have lost it

Answer 1

Take the time to grieve, its healthy. Then understand that it is all part of the life cycle. I don't know what your parents relationship was like, but if it was a healthy one take solice from the fact that thier love out grew the constraints of this world and called them together.

Answer 2

Death is very hard to deal with. I lost my dad when I was 13 and it took me like 2 or 3 years to accept it. it takes time, and take your time at it. It's not something you can just get over in a couple days. I hate when people tell me to just get over it and get on with life and that I cant just mope around all the time. You need to just get away a few days and relax. get away from work/school etc. and just have some quiet time to clear your thoughts. It takes time, just relax and sooner or later you will be okay. I feel for you.

Answer 3

1st I am sorry to hear about your loss. I am 38 and have already lost both of my parents, and you never GET OVER it, you just learn to live with it. You don't stop living your life, you take the good and bad that you learned from your parents tweek it a little and make it your own. You and your siblings are the ones to carry on your family name now. I was told it takes about 3 years to get over the shock and to get focused on your life again. It has been about 3 years since my Mom died and I am finding that pretty true, my Dad died when I was 9 and it changed my whole life in a good way though, of course you will miss your parents but you can't bring them back only their memories, and what you do with those memories is up to you. Good Luck to you and your family.

Answer 4

You need to talk about it with someone, a pastor, a friend, a psychiatrist, a stranger, etc. Anyone even your sisters on the phone let them know that they aren't alone and that you need a shoulder to lean on too. Trust me, I've lost a Great Aunt, a cousin, and an Uncle all this year, sometimes just talking or typing helps. I give you my condolences and I hope you can find comfort and strength to move on.

Answer 5

oh boy, i wasn't going to answer your question, because that is a very sensitive subject to me. i am 38
i lost my dad.
my mom moved across to the other side of the country.
i lost my husband not long ago. he passed away in his sleep next to me in bed. it was just awful. my whole world was crusted, i had those days that i didn't even get out of bed.
the only thing that you can do is pray sweetie, i know it seems like the end of the world, but it's not. trust me.
just pray for the wisdom and the strength. i wish i could say something to take the pain away.
the only thing you can do is take one day at a time, and with time it gets easier. you can believe that, it really will. i will pray for you. i also want you to know that they are with you in heart and soul.
my heart really goes out to you. i am very saddened by your great lost .

Answer 6

Well i don't know if you believe in God and prayer, But prayer is the answer, God said he would not put no more on us than we can bare. Pray and ask God to guide you in the right direction and to help you except the things that you can not change and that you have lost both of your parents and you need some clothier's and strength to help you deal with the life ahead of you.

Answer 7

by know that other ppl experienced what you experienced and thinking that your parents will always be with you, not in the physical form but spiritual form

they are in a better place right now, it's the living who miss the dead, i dont believe the dead miss the living

and by realising that strangers empathise with your situation and hope that you take time to grieve and hope someday you will not grieve so much for them

sorry to hear about the death in your family

Answer 8

You and your sisters need to talk to a professional. Your minister, a counsellor, join a grief group. Depending upon what your ages are, maybe another close relative can help? Good luck.