What do i do when my child's father's ex-girlfriend is calling me wishing death on my unborn baby?

Question

I am 4 months pregnant and everything has been great until she came back in the picture. Now she keeps threatining my baby's life and he does nothing about it. I dont know what to do!

Answer 1

Call the police and file a report. (they will probably ask you to come to the station to do it) and then go to your local court house and file a retraining order. Every time she calls or comes within 500 feet of you, call the police. Eventually (even with one phone call) the prosecuting attorny for you local police will press charges against her for you. Then you just show up at the hearing to testify as a wittness that indeed these things have happened. Make sure when filling out your PPO that you state she has called and threatened your unborn child and you fear for you and your child's safety. They COULD deny your PPO if you do not state a reason as to why you need the PPO and make it a good reason. Go into detail and attatch another page if neccesary to make sure they know everything. Start writing down dates and times of the calls and what was stated during the call.
Good luck and be safe.
Also above there is an answer where they say to record the calls- they will not hold up in court. There is no proof as to what time the call was placed and if that is even her. (I tried that too)

Answer 2

Record her and then call the police. If not, don't answer the phone. Don't fall for childness crap. You just need to make sure that you get a copy of her calling and report it. Because if it happens and she follows threw, there is nothing you can to because you never reported it.

BTW, the babies father isn't doing anything because he is enjoying that you are both fighting over him. He knows that once this girlfriend goes you will take him back. Don't stoop that low. Your babies daddy knows that she is calling and he is probably instigating the whole thing.

Answer 3

I agree with MiaDiva's great suggestion - tape the conversations where the ex is threatening your baby. Write down the dates and times that she calls. Take all this evidence to the police, file a restraining order or find out what other options you have. DO NOT let this sick twisted person get to you - don't let her stress you out. Don't think you are "making a big deal" of things - find out your legal options and use them against her! At the very least can you change your phone number?

But first and foremost - why the h*ll isn't your man stepping up and speaking out? HE needs to tell her to back off and leave ya'll alone! Does he understand this is HIS baby she is making a threat against as well? He needs to stand up to her ... tell him that. Don't let this nasty piece of work harrass you.. there are laws against this - she's one f*cked up person and if i were in your position (and unpregnant of course! LOL) i'd kick her a**!

Answer 4

Call 911 Report It Imdeatnly..! But U Shoudlnt Put Ur Buiznezz Out Lik Dat On Da Net!

Answer 5

First off I can't believe hes ok with someone wishing death on his unborn child. She has no control over what happens to your baby. You can't stress about it because then you could cause problems with your pregnancy. Shes not even worth worrying about. I'd document and call the police, maybe a pfa against her. If your b/f doesnt step up i'd kick him to the curb to

Answer 6

First of all, unless his ex-girlfriend has any kids with him-there's no reason for her to be back in the picture. Your man needs a swift kick in the *** for not defending you. Call the police about the phona calls. It is illegal to make threats like that. If she is threatening harm upon you or your to be baby-you can sue her. Good luck & be safe!

Answer 7

there's a contraption you can get that has a magnet that sticks to the back of your phone and plugs into a tape trecorder like a microphone. if you have caller id, then just hook it up everytime she calls. if you don't have caller id, then hook it up anytime someone calls. better safe than sorry. phone harrassment is a serious thing in many states because it turns to actual violence eventually.
you didn't say if you're with the father of your child or if he went back to her. if you're still with him, i'd let him know that he better not tolerate this or he's gone and you'll see him in court about child support and visitation. if he thinks this is all a joke, he needs to learn better. if he's with her, tape record everything (like i've already said) and let the court know you don't want your child anywhere near that woman because you fear for its life. and then get supervised visitation for him. maybe that'll teach him to take this stuff more seriously.

Answer 8

I would have to say don't worry about it. Because all she is trying to do is to scar you and your unborn baby. I know it weird, but it true. Why worry about something that is not happening right now when their nothing going on. All I know is that you are going to ask God, because you can not do it on your own. You do not own your self. I am telling the truth. Any way good luck.

Answer 9

Don't pay attention to her I know it is hard, but getting worked up isn't healthy for you or the baby. She's just jealous and wishes she was the one having his kid and still with him. Have you tried talking to him not yell but talk to him and tell him how you feel about the situation and explain to him that it can hurt the baby to be under such stress. If she doen't block her number try blocking hers so she can't get through. Congrats with the pregnancy.

Answer 10

She is crazy, you need to document it with the police get all the evidence you can against her because she may be one of those pschoes that will kidnap your baby. There is to much violence made against pregnant women, but if she ever come on your property you will know and you can kick her *** or shoot her in the leg. Or hell take her to small claims court and get her for mental anguish.