well it's always a smart move. Just to make sure!
2006-11-16 14:52:24
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answered by MelC 6
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I'm 6 years older than my wife and we dated when she was 16 and have two kids.
Her parents seem to be pretty glad we are married now.
You can imagine that it wasn't always that way.
I know we made some very wrong choices but we were very fortunate to have some family and friends that cared so much about both of us by showing love, forgiveness,mercy and understanding.
It is not exactly easy for most people to be a good and follow the law most of the time, and do everything it says is right because there is so much difference of idea in people.
If this happened to my daughter and she was in love with with the guy, I sure wouldn't want her to have him after he had been in prison.
Instead of pressing charges, I guess I would do all I could to make him pay for his crime, even if it was not enouph. But I would not wish prison on my worst enemy.
I think it is often really that bad. A never ending nightmare that will completely destroy a mans life for ever, much of the time. Especially in this day and age, it can be as bad or even worse than capital punishment itself.
If the guy is only 21, chances are he doesn't really deserve to suffer that kind of fate at this stage. And he may only now be fully realizing what the effects and consequences might be.
He probably has respectable people breaking the law all around him. There are so many powerful influences in society that would lead a young man to do something like this. And finally, regardless of what you do, he will suffer psychological trama because of his own choices.
This may be used as a tool to help him recover from his problems in the right hands. Or used in the rong hands to completly destroy him. I'm not saying he is any better or worse than I was. I don't know.
2006-11-16 16:13:33
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answered by . 1
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If he wasnt to help with the baby then yes he will need to have a DNA test done, but she can deny the test unless the judge orders to take it. You can get the DNA through the court. I would tell the 21 year old if he is going to claim the baby to start before it is born by helping the 15 year old paying for doctor visits and everything else.
2006-11-16 16:06:25
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answered by spoiledmogurl04 2
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if my daughter was 15 (she's 2 right now) and she got pregnant by a 21 year old, i don't think her father would let there be anything left of the man to have a dna test done. that's statutory rape in most states. but if you aren't worried about it, i won't preach. your situation may be complicated or different than what i'm thinking.
most states like to have dna tests done so that if it is his and later he says it isn't (i actually have a friend who had that happen and then she had a dna test and he was infact the dad), there is no way for him to get out of his responsibilities unless another man wants to adopt the child (also happened in said friend's situation). many times the court themselves will order the test and tell you where to have it done. it's often in a doctor's office after the baby is born. i'd also ask her physician about it. (s)he can tell you more.
2006-11-16 15:04:47
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answered by Mommyof4 3
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Is this your daughter you're talking about? She still pregnant or had the baby already?
If he signed the birth certificate, there should be no need for DNA. If not petition the courts to make him take a DNA test and then have the **** charged with statutory rape.
2006-11-16 14:54:23
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answered by ♥Jenn♥ 3
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Why or why not? i imagine its as a lot because the female, yet could she ought to stay with a consistent reminder of what her father did to her. Does rape justify homicide? No Do 2 wrongs make a good? No is this concern a very good sufficient excuse to interrupt the sixth commandment? relies upon on the way you look at it. Is abortion going to fix the issue? No, she will be able to nonetheless be scarred for what her father did for her. Is having an abortion going to regulate the shown truth that her father raped her? No it received't. Being raped by a father is terrible sufficient, why could she ought to flow via the soreness of a being pregnant and complicated artwork and delivery. Is there a thanks to respond to this issue by coming up with a imaginative answer that doesn't contain breaking the guidelines and killing people? i won't be able to locate one. some may say adoption, yet she will be able to nonetheless ought to flow via 9 terrible months of a being pregnant created out of hate fairly than love, then ought to provide a toddler that replaced into created that way. i recognize its not the little ones fault, besides the undeniable fact that it is not the adverse female who were given raped both. If she chooses existence and delivers beginning to the youngster, is this going to make the concern any worse than it already is? Who is familiar with, relies upon on how solid she is. If God facilitates the youngster to stay, then who're we to assert it ought to die? we are not.
2016-11-29 05:19:40
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answered by ? 4
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If he signs the paper stating hes the biological father I dont understand why you need DNA. If he's willing to admit it then that should be good enough. If he does deny it after signing the papers then he has to pay for the DNA to prove hes not the father.
2006-11-16 14:52:43
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answered by Anonymous
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The doctor can tell you how to get DNA. They can now take it from the unborn fetus. If you are planning on filing statutory rape against him he probably will deny the child. If you aren't you should.
2006-11-16 15:00:28
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answered by Patty 3
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Yes, you need the DNA. There is no way a court will have his a$$ for Statuory Rape without it.
2006-11-16 15:20:28
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answered by Carlos 3
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just go to the docor after the baby is born...thats the only way...but...just to make the court happy,. id get the test done.
2006-11-16 14:53:50
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answered by Raven S 3
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yes courts need to be sure,they take either a swab or blood test
2006-11-16 15:10:09
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answered by nana 2
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