My boyfriend has only been in love twice before me. He says that he loved this girl who I think is a horrible person. Should I let this worry me? I don't feel special anymore.
2006-11-16 14:12:38 · 14 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's absolutely unrealistic for us to believe that our man has NEVER loved anyone else, although I understand the hurt and uncertainty that it can bring to our womanly minds. Still, I think you have to look at it from a place where you should be happy he loved other women and that he is now with you...that is what makes you special. It's just a retraining of the mind. Try not to stress about it, or go over it in your mind again and again, just be happy with what you have. Good luck.
2006-11-16 14:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes we judge people only by what we know or see them as. Maybe this past girl had some good things to her that your bf saw that not many people see. I think you owe it to yourself to give the guy a chance and let the past go, he is with you now and that is what is important. You should feel special for that reason and not let anything stop you from feeling that way :)
2006-11-16 22:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by EchosOfAngels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us have made a poor choice or two in the relationship department. If this woman truly is horrible it is still no reflection on you or him. If he is any kind of man he has learned something from each of these relationships!!
2006-11-16 22:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bone H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old? Teenager? You're not going to know what real love is for a very very long time and don't worry about who they loved before as long as it's you they're with now.
2006-11-16 22:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your boyfriend say she was a horrible person then dont worry
2006-11-16 22:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way:your boyfriends past loves are testimony to how much he has matured and grown in his choices-he found you!
2006-11-16 22:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad for you. If you were truly in love you would feel special.
2006-11-16 22:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, different people has different thinking u know.
my boyfriend tell me that his ex is horrible but i found out after we break up that, he is the one that is horrible
2006-11-16 22:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know and don't care! He is with me and that's that!
Together 13 / married 6
2006-11-16 22:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is moving up. Cool!
2006-11-16 22:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by cdb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋