I really like this shy girl and we've known each other a few weeks but so far it's just small talk. She seems to enjoy my company and sometimes she laughs and we have a good talk and other times she's quiet, but she stays for a while till the talk runs out. I really think she likes me but I can't figure out how to tell her my feelings! Sometimes when I say how she's pretty she'll laugh and look embarrassed but then we carry on like I didn't say anything. I've said how I enjoy her company, how it's really nice talking to her. I don't know what else to do. I'm shy too so I don't think I can just say I love you.
2006-11-16 12:43:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just to add some details, I know a lot about her already as all we've done is small talk! We've watched movies together and afterwards we talk but even when I try to say how she's pretty and stuff it goes nowhere. She's very shy but I just wish I could figure out how she really feels.
2006-11-16 14:06:03 · update #1
Ask her to see a movie or a TV show. You don't have to talk a lot then. Ask her what she would like to eat or drink and enjoy the movie or show. Then after the show is over, discuss it without being negative. She'll open up.....maybe. Take it slow and enjoy your time together.
2006-11-16 12:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should figure out small things about her to figure her out and to open up. her fav. color. music she likes, food she likes what makes her happy, mad, even sad. you have to understand her to overcome this shy awkward relationship. once these things arent being hidden any longer, hopefully you two will have more in common and be able to open up.
Have you guys been intimate? sometimes when a girl is shy around a man it's because they know now, a more vunerable side of us.. which could leave her mute to avoid any embarassement.?? Ya I don't know? A good relationship should be honest pure and open. why are you so into someone who can't give you what you need?
There is a difference between an awkward silence and a comfortable silence.:-)
2006-11-16 20:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really need small talk. Do you know that silence is a sign of being totally and completely comfortable with yourself and each other? If you can sit together in silence and not feel awkward then you know you've found someone special.
2006-11-16 20:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell her you love her; just keep showing her.
2006-11-16 20:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi. if she stays mute just give up. try askmen.com
2006-11-17 04:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋