My father used to snap my bra straps and fondle my buttons, ear holes and inner thighs...
he liked went to bathroom without closing the door and changed his clothes(take off his pants) in front of me. he also liked to rub his penis in public.
is it okay and normal things to happen? or it consider sexual abuse?
i feel he is so disgusted....and i hate him...
2006-11-16 12:40:26 · 11 answers · asked by woodland0304 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have a niece who was in the exact same predicament as you. Your father touching you is considered sexual abuse. And his bathroom/changing habits are considered lewd behavior. He can go to jail for many years for what he is doing.
If your mother loves you and will put you before your dad, talk to her. But some mothers call their daughters liars and ignore them. If you feel more comfortable with an aunt, grandparent, teacher, coach, or family friend, talk to one of them. The people who know you best can give you the best advice.
Don't worry about breaking up your family or making someone mad. Protect yourself first.
2006-11-16 13:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to your mom about this first. This is total wrong and if you feel uncomfortable then this is sexual abuse. If he does that again infront of you, tell him to stop and tell him that you feel uncomfortable.
It is not normal for a Father to do this infront of there daughter.
If nothing works, you will have to talk about this with a counselor.
2006-11-16 13:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is and it will get worse .
Talk to another female family member that you trust or tell the police-
2006-11-16 14:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a close relationship with your mother, the kind that you talk about things, you should tell her. If not, go to the counselor at school and talk to him or her.
2006-11-16 12:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is defenitly a form of sexual abuse you should defiantly tell Simone if he wont stop. its very important to tell someone quickly.
any thing someone dose sexually that makes you uncomfortable is a form of sexual abuse
2006-11-16 12:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by candyrat17 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he touches you like that, yes it is abuse, and I would do something about it.
2006-11-16 13:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-18 01:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help,what he is doing is wrong and he knows it.Look after yourself.keep safe.
2006-11-16 12:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by paulina83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is a pervert.
2006-11-16 14:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR RIGHT, ITS WRONG. ITS NOT RIGHT FOR A FATHER TO TREAT HIS DAUGHTER IN SUCH A MANNER. YOU ARE NOT HIS WIFE AND TOUCHING HIMSELF IN PUBLIC IS NOT RIGHT EITHER. DONT HATE HIM. FORGIVE HIM. TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. HE NEEDS TO KNOW HES DOING WRONG. ALTHOUGH HE SHOULD KNOW IT ALREADY.
2006-11-16 12:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by bonnie b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋