2006-11-16 12:18:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think they SHOULD, but most people, if they ever will marry, do so before 35 y/o on average. This goes male and female. I found that over and over when I was single again at 45, and guys my age range of 35-55 were like stuck in neutral if they had never been married. It's like they are afraid of the leap.
BUT.....
If I conversed with persons of the same age range who had DIVORCED or were WIDOWED, they were very pro re-marriage. Even despite the heartache and expenses, these people were willing to date seriously with marriage as the end product MORE than persons who had never taken the plunge.
So, I am engaged to a man who is 10 yrs younger, he was married for 2 yrs and divorced, and he's very pro-marriage. We'll probably set a date this coming spring.
It's just that commitment thing again. If you haven't gone thru the experience before, the fear of divorce is so strong, and the comfort in being single so strong and embedded in the psyche, that it's hard to restructure the mindset.
2006-11-16 12:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. I was married by age 20 and broke up in less than 4 years. It just depends if it was meant to be. I feel that I will wait a while until I get married again and then it may never happen.
Peace, Love and Hope 2 ya :)
2006-11-16 20:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless both people are ready. Or you might not be the marrying kind. Most are ready around the age of 35 though. Of course, one should not marry unless they are SURE it is a lifetime thing with both people working well together.
2006-11-16 20:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO..there are some people who should never marry. I mean that nicely. People need to stop worrying about the biological clock and wait for the right person....geesh everyone concerned about time and not the quality of life...oddly enough alot are divorced by 35.
2006-11-16 20:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by ஐAldaஐ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt put an age on marriage it all depends how long u are willing to wait till u find that perfect someone and sometimes people never do and some find it really early so no i dont think that most people should be it all depends man
2006-11-16 20:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by snake lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the question should be..should adults wait until at least 35 before marrying?
2006-11-16 20:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by OliveRuth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u?and why 35 yrs?u marry 4 love and if u dont find it till ur 40 would say no sorry im too old now??
2006-11-16 20:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the person. it's not a crime to be single at 35. just dont feel too much pressure. its better to wait untill you find someone you would be happy with years from now and when you are old and gray, than to rush into something that you were pressured into and have it spiral down and make you miserable.
2006-11-16 20:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by sally 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, people mature at different levels and may not be mature enough by 35 or even 42.
2006-11-16 20:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think we dont have to...but is common and some people just freak out and marry anyone just cause they think they are getting older and then that wedding ends in a divorce
try not to unless you are in love
2006-11-16 20:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋