She really isn't that fat! She's like.... 4'10 and weighs 105 pounds! I weight a lot more than that! Ok.. the problem is that she doesn't like her body! She wears a jacket around class to class when it's burning hot!!! She hates getting up to turn in a test cuz everyone will see her body!!! She's really acting crazy!
What should i do or say to help her?
2006-11-16 11:56:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah.. is see her eat... she not anorxic or bulimic or anything.. (she ain' t that crazy)
2006-11-16 12:15:14 · update #1
A lot of us (if not all) are going to feel insecure with ourselves at some point. It happens to me and I feel the same way as your friend at times. Maybe not so extreme that I don't want to get up, which comes to show that your friend needs support. This insecurity could lead to anorexia or another eating disorder. To make her feel better about herself, make off-hand comments about how great she looks. Don't make a huge emphasis on it so she thinks you're just making it up, but say it with sincerity. Do it on a daily basis, from saying her hair looks nice today, or her shirt looks great on her and she should take her jacket so other people can admire it, too.
2006-11-16 12:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really make feel that she isn't fat at all i mean someone that weighs 105 ain't fat OK you should tell her that she should worry what people think cause that can really mess her life. tell her that she is pretty the way she is. but the thing is does she eat at all? Cause if she doesn't then that's a problem! you should help her fast
2006-11-16 20:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pink_qt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend named Michelle like that and she didnt like her body. Every time a guy finally showed her some attention she would do whatever she could to keep they attention and they ended up hurting her and having sex with her only. I tried talking to Michelle after talking to her and then talking to her again but nothing helped...i dont know what to say to you to help you help her out. But just tell her u think shes beautiful and treat her to some new clothes or her hair done or just go shopping with her and have her try on some reallly pretty clothes and just KEEP on complimenting her and making her confident. Like every time she comes out the dressing room be like WORK IT SISTER lol and after u do that start snapping photos like shes famous lol. Hopefully my advice helped...good luck
2006-11-16 20:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be a good friend to her. You, as a woman, know that if a woman is not self confident there is nothing anyone can do or say to make them think different. Even if your friend is skinny and hott, she may not see it and until she sees it HERSELF she will continue to act this way. Be there for her!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-16 19:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that shes beautiful & tell her that youre SO jealous of her fantabulous body! Get some friends to go along w/ it too. Sit there & tell her how much youd luv to be her size. She will start feeling better about herself. Good luck.
*Abby*
2006-11-16 22:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has low self esteem.Or she doesn't doesn't want people to see her body which is fine also.Accept her as she is.If she is her friend you won't make it a big deal and make her feel worse
2006-11-16 19:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her and make her feel good about her body saying somethink nice to her
2006-11-16 20:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her find ways to build up her self esteem, just be there for her and don't mention anything about her body.
2006-11-16 20:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ gina ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and tell her the truth!
2006-11-16 20:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the teacher and they will talk and settle her down or just sit down whith her and talk
2006-11-16 20:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by jamie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋