another man. I was very drunk, but does this mean I am gay? Should I tell my wife?
2006-11-16 11:55:55 · 15 answers · asked by cc_40oz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. You aren't gay, you are prone to being intoxicated.
Yes. You should tell your wife. Secrets=strain on a marriage. If she finds out some other way, your butt is toast.
Give her the truth, and then stay away from the female coworker and the gay bar.
2006-11-16 11:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by apinkjacket 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to make you feel bad, but there are so many things wrong with this. I'm assuming the female co-worker you went with is gay, which would make going out alone with a female a little bit better. But you went with her to a gay bar? Why would you do that if you aren't gay? I don't think you're gay and don't let this experience make you think that you are. You're married with two children, you're straight as a line. You should definitely tell your wife! You're probably a little embarrassed (or you should be) explain this to her and tell her you definitely won't go to gay bars again! Or any bar without her for that matter...if you'd make out with a guy because you were so drunk, you just might do the same with a female. She'll either laugh at you or be REALLY mad! Honesty though, and good luck!!! haha.....
2006-11-16 12:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say - my husband would never go to a gay bar, nor go with a female to any bar. Your wife doesn't already know you went to a bar? Tell your wife, you kissed a guy... I guess you need to decide where you stand first. It also depends a lot on the relationship you and your wife have.
2006-11-16 18:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, why would you be going out with another woman if your married? Shame on you! Secondly, a gay bar? Out of all the restaurants, bars and clubs, you and your "girlfriend" pick a gay bar! Okayyyyy Third, it doesnt make you gay at all! Fourth, you need to be honest with your wife!
2006-11-16 12:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gotta say that is weird. all men that i know wouldn't kiss a man let alone make out with one. Have you ever thought that you were gay or bi-sexual? I don't know about telling your wife. If you were my hubby I would be creeped out. Making out with a girl is understandable but a man; i don't think i could handle that.
2006-11-16 12:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by jelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not gay but you aren't a very good husband either. What the heck are you doing at a gay bar with another woman?
What is wrong with people?????????????????
2006-11-16 12:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...you wouldn't have gone there if you were not gay...no straight man would. Get an AIDs test first and tell your wife...because you will repeat this situation and you very well know it.
2006-11-16 11:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You defiantly rode the short but to school didn't you. Yes you should tell your wife. I do not know if it makes you gay or not but it definitely does not earn you any points in the manly department
2006-11-16 12:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make you gay ,i think you should tell her to clear your conscience but explain it to her what happened.word of advice don't get drunk while your out drink and know your limit so it wont happen again
2006-11-16 12:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on whether or not you enjoyed it enough to do it again. If you don't want to do it again then just keep it to yourself. Some things are better left unsaid. Unless you are curious now, then you would need to tell her.
2006-11-16 12:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by kenzi2730 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋