How do you get your life back under control when emotions begin to take over after continued problems.?

Question

Not drug or alchohol related.

More detailed, I mean that I feel continually misunderstood in my intentions and how I used to be treated is no longer in effect...like a superstar who could do no wrong before I turned 30...is no longer how I am percieved. I was an aggressive athlete..but now am super nice, but get taken advantage of constantly...Even told that I should be tougher. What the hell?

Answer 1

your putting your life before God. this happened to me before. but with a different yet similar situation. pray to God. you will understand afterwards.

im saying that your putting this in front of God. so this is more important than God. so you should pray. because you're getting all sad because you dont see God in your life. like..your getting all emotional because God isnt in your life right now. hes gone because your putting this as a more important situation than his relationship with you. pray..

i hope it made sense..

Answer 2

Having emotions can mean ur very compassionate, caring and therefore u tend to overextend and over look analyzing your situation.

What continued problems? A very wise 4 yr old told me... "Inch by Inch, it's a CINCH! Yard by Yard it's TOO Hard!"

so maybe take his philosophy to tackle your emotions one by one. Analysis whether it's helping u or not. If it's not helping u then it's one that u need to work on modifying or changing.

Look we all screw up, get frustrated and run off of emotions rather than logic. Usually none of us are the worse for wear. But if your mind and emotions are getting the best of u... there are plenty of counseling options to help u sort and move forward.

I wish u future happiness and peace...

Answer 3

Basically. you take it one day at a time. If necessary. I would even suggest counseling. We all sometimes have a little more on our plates than we can handle at some point in our lives. Seek professional help if you need it. Just look in the yellow pages under mental health. Most hospitals have an outpatient clinic for this purpose.

Answer 4

- What happened has happpened u can't change the past so don't let ur negative emotion take contro on u but let the positive one like that u managed and u survive ---- Now, pull yourself togather and analyize and realize the lessons of those problems and start fresh and strong into the good future. Wishing u all the best in ur life

Answer 5

Hopefully you are financially stable, and time will heal. Moving to another entirely new environment could help. In the meantime, support from friends and family is most important, you must open up and talk to them about the problems. This would be like letting go of them and you'd feel better.

Answer 6

We have to understand the real meaning of life and then these things will not effect us. We are in the land of Maya or illusion and we have to get free from this covering over our consciousness. The quickest and easiest way to become free of all suffering and illusion and know who we really are is to chant the Maha Mantra or the Great Mantra for deliverance. Go to http://www.stephen-knapp.com/chanting_hare_krishna.htm all details are there also go to other parts of the site for universal truths and how to become free

Answer 7

by finding some way to release all these emotions bottled up inside of you. People have different ways to cope with these feelings by writing music/poem (or simply writing), or you can start by talking to someone about it..

Answer 8

would love to help u,but i have the same problem.good luck

Answer 9

I was hoping you could tell me...

Answer 10

what do you mean?

sexyally? emotionally?