I have a friend who's had her boyfriend's daughter since birth she's now 2yrs old and her mother war incarcerated now thats she's home from jail she wants her daughter and the baby's father and he also has been acting funny with my friend since she's been home from jail.He sits in the car and talk to her. my friend has gotten attached to the daughter but shes afraid that she won't see her again he's taking her back out of town to her mother
2006-11-16 11:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if she's had her since birth, and she is the one raising her she has all rights to fight for her i think she should take it to court for custody something she should of done in the first year or so. I hope she has proof of having her in her home for the past 2 yrs. it sounds like the birth mother is not a good mother.good luck to her...
2006-11-16 11:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived through a similar situation, it isn't an easy thing to do, but your friend should just accept the reality that she cannot change what the parents are doing. She is probally like me , and loves the baby, but she can't be with her any more. I would suggest that your friend ask if she can visit or keep in touch, but if they say no, there isn't much she can do. It's sad and the baby is the one losing a mother, but try to get on with her life and move on. If a man is going to be so heartless to dump that kind of drama in your lap, she doesn't need that. Just imagine what else he may do in the future. Go find someone who cares for your feelings.
2006-11-16 11:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have a choice in the matter... it's not her kid and I'll bet the two (babys mamma and dad) will get back together watch and see... I feel for you friend... being attached to the baby and all... she needs to prepare herself for what may be instore... I have a bad feeling on this one...
2006-11-16 11:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she shouldn't. She needs to sit her bf and the child's mother down and let them know that she would like to continue to be apart of the child's life. Then she has to decide what she'll do from there based on what their responses are.
2006-11-16 11:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer.
2006-11-16 11:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad as it may be its their daughter and your friend may get hurt because it appears he still has something for the babies mam ma. so prepare your friend and stick by her side. remember even if they do not get together the ex will always be in his life because of the child.
2006-11-16 11:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. tell her to tell him that he needs to choose between her or the baby mama. it doesn't sound like he's gonna choose her though, if he's trying to make his daughter go back to her mother and she was in jail. he's probably sneaking around behind her back.
2006-11-16 11:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋