I am going through a divorce, and am not able to concentrate on anything in my schedule. I know I have not done anything wrong in my past relationship, but even then due to my in-laws, we are getting separated. Can anyone please share their feelings during divorce? Are their any social gatherings which you can go to kill time? Is it right to look for another partner to forget about past life? Ours was a love marriage in India, so is it okay to look for a arranged marriage second time. Should I look for divorce women in my second relations (since I will be divorcee), or is it better to look for never married women (since I am not that aged). Any suggestions will help a lot. Thanks in advance for your replies.
2006-11-16 11:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by Blore B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Resist at all costs getting involved with anyone immediately. This is the tough part, the first 12 months or so. If you try to hook-up now you'll just be thinking of your past life. You are about to be reborn as a brand new man. Stick to out and don't let up. Grit your teeth and learn to fly. You will love being divorced. Free at last, free at last. Thank God almighty free at last. There are sooo many woman out in the world looking for GOOD men. See what happens when those around you understand that this is for real.
REWARDING! VERY, VERY, VERY REWARDING!
Good Luck.
2006-11-16 11:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Schmo from Kokomo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is very difficult. You will have a mix of all kinds of emotions that you never realized that anyone could ever feel. I would surround yourself with good friends & family. Make sure you have folks you can vent to & blow off steem. You must focus on yourself. Keep yourself busy & on the go.. Get together with some friends & plan a few nights out a wk to keep yourself occuppied. If you don't, the divorce will consume you. Go do something you've always wanted to do & have some fun. Good Luck to you & keep your chin up. It will get better.
2006-11-16 19:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what decent you are, but I live in America. All I can tell you is this- in America, people marry for love. Don't get into an arranged marriage or look for a certain type of woman- divorced, widow, never married, etc: marry who you fall in love with.
2006-11-16 19:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce???
That's like sipping hot cocoa in hell!
Time heals everything. Try to be the person you want people to remember you for.
My divorce was super duper expensive.
I hope your divorce goes easy. I would not have a knee-jerk reaction about getting married immediately,, take your time.
2006-11-16 19:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce,I love this word.Feeling of freedom at last.I live in America and divorce and remarry is like playing a game.If we do not like one person,we say I love you to next available person.No problem.In couple of months,you will feel just fine.You do not have to look for anything,if you have good resources,relations will be looking for you.
2006-11-17 21:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st i stoped reading after you wrote : I have not done anything wrong in my past relationship. It's always a two person thing it takes two to make it two to break it. Even thou you don't see it you did something!
2006-11-16 19:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love marriage are most failure , main reson that your familis not mingled. but in arranged marriage, familis mingled more than coples and avoid any problem arises
2006-11-16 19:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋