Could I be pregnant? Is this signs of a misscarriage?

Question

When my fiancee and I became sexually active I had my period for 1 day. After that we continued to have intercourse and my period stopped, Ive been showing signs of being pregnant: weight gain in my area, headaches, loss of appettie etc. I went to planned parenthood and they told me that they wouldnt be able to help me until I missed my period which was 2 weeks away. I just got in on Tuesday (2 weeks earlier), Ive been really crampy, nausea, tired and severelly bleeding(very heavy since tuesday).. Im really scared im not sure what to do and no one will give me answers. Im praying to god someone on here will help me so I know what to do. We're trying to have a baby so bad and this will break his heart if I lost it! Im not really sure what to do if I was pregnant it would only be a couple weeks old (between 1-3)... Thank you for everyone that helps me and GOD BLESS!

Answer 1

Hi there,

I couldn't guarantee anything without an exam by a doctor, but in my experience, very early miscarriages rarely cause pain or exceptionally heavy bleeding. In my opinion, the period you had that lasted one day was not a true period, and the symptoms you're experiencing now are the result of a delayed period. In a case like that, the lining of the uterus (which sheds when a fertilized egg does not implant) builds up more than usual, resulting in more cramping and bleeding. Again, I could be wrong, hon, but honestly, even if it were a miscarriage, there would be nothing anyone could do at this very early stage. .Unless you are soaking through a pad or tampon every hour, goes on more than 7 days, or you feel dizzy or faint, you should be just fine. Remember you can always go to the ER to set your mind at ease..that's what they're there for! You and your partner will be blessed with the baby you want before too long! best fo luck and please let me know how you make out.
Mel

Answer 2

Ok hun I just expeirenced the exact same thing. So don't jump the gun be calm. No need to stress out 1st thing what not to do. If it is a miscarry you will have cramps worst than menstral cramps...the headaches I wouldn't be too worried about due to I recieved them as well and my doctor told me it just my body dealing with all the changes. If u are heavily bleeding it is a possibility of a miscarry but at the same time if u loose the feeling of tenderness in your breast and lose the nausea it's also a big chance to miscarry. if u are bleeding usually you would after your 1st missed period from then on you will spot on the days of your " suppose to be periods" or you may not. If u start stressing out or getting in arguments it will also cause you to bleed (more like spot) due to stress in the body. If u strain your stomach it can also cause a miscarriage. So take things lightly...take a test from the store if its unclear go to a plan parent hood!

Answer 3

It doesn't sound like a miscarriage, but you can never be too sure...this might sound gross, but have you noticed any large blood clots? When I say large, I mean maybe half the size of your fist...How long do your periods usually last? The one day that you had it, how heavy was it? I know I'm asking alot of questions, but these are things that should be considered....of course, you should go see your OB/Gyn to know for sure. And if you do go see your doc, be sure to tell them you're trying to get pregnant, that way they can tell you what you should be doing to get your body prepared for pregnancy. I hope its not a miscarriage you're having, it doesn't sound like it from what you said...Good luck, and an important thing to remember while trying to concieve, don't stress over it, it will happen when the time is right!

Answer 4

Some people, if they are pregnant, still have a period. When I had a miscarriage, it was the most awful pain of my life. The pain was so intense, I could not even stand on my own. You would probably pass a lot of clots, too. I strongly recommend taking an at-home pregnancy test. Even thought the box says to wait until your missed period, a lot of times it will pick it up sooner. If it comes up as negative, try one every couple of days. It sounds like your symptoms could be pregnancy, but they could be signs of something else as well.

Answer 5

http://www.teenadviceonline.org/gethelp/numbers.html#usa

this above me shows EVERY week of pregnancy and you can go read every week and that might help you... and the best thing is to go to your doctor... he/she is the ONLY one that can really help you and tell you what to do..

EARLY PREGNANCY SYMPTOMS
http://www.surebaby.com/

missed menstrual period
nausea
extreme fatigue
frequent urination
tender breasts
headache
heartburn
constipation
spotting
feeling faint



SIGNS OF MISSCARRIAGE
http://tjsamson.client.web-health.com/web-health/topics/WomensHealth/womenshealthsub/womenshealthpages/Pregnancy/miscarriage_signs.html

Most miscarriages occur during the first trimester. Signs of a potential miscarriage are:

Bleeding (with or without pain). Bleeding is the symptom most commonly experienced. Bleeding may be:
Mild Spotting,
Persistent Bleeding,
Heavy Bleeding, or
Passage of Large Clots
There are plenty of women who have bleeding during early pregnancy who do not end up having a miscarriage. Other warning signs may be:
Cramps (menstrual-like)
Aching of the Lower Back
Passage of Tissue
[Note: SAVE any tissue that is expelled-it should be examined to determine whether the miscarriage was complete or partial (see below).]
[Note: Blood will be red to brown in color. If a clear fluid is discharged, this could indicate rupture of the amniotic sac membranes ("water has broken"). Call a doctor promptly.]



hoped this helped!!

Answer 6

It could be that you were preagnant and had a misgarriage. Assuming that you did have a misgarriage, you shouldn't beat yourself up over it. It is more common than you would think. Many women have a miscarriage and don't even know it. After that, they have beautiful healthy babies without any complications. if you really want to get preagnant, that you might want to talk to your doctor so that he/she can give you a chart to keep track of your period with. And make sure you start taking folic acid now to make sure your body is as ready as possible. I know it sounds mean, but I wouldn't sweat it this time. It could be that your period is just heavy this month. Good luck.

Answer 7

I was pregnant with twins 5 years ago and was 3 months along and miscarried, i had some of the very same simptoms i am sorry to say it but it sounds to me if you were then i dont beleive you are anymore with that, it broke my heart cause i was going to have twins. but it wasnt ment to be i supose but keep in mind u can try try again my mom had 3 miscarries b4 me, my grandma had a toltal of 4 she had 3 kids in the end.
i am 25 and am still tring but i just cant loose hope
u can also check webmd for free doctors advicefor any stage of life for men or women pregnat or not as well as children it has help me alot though the years with my question of a medical nature.
my condolances if you did miscarry but dont loose hope one misscarry is not the end it does not mean you will never have children its just Gods way of saying you may not be ready (at least he's/she's giving you the option).
as for you fiancee mine is broken hearted every time i get a period he wants a child soooooo bad but he never stops loving me and he is always there for me when my hopes r high and then let down cheer him up just by saying hey lets go try again NOW!!!!!!! lol
keep your head up

Answer 8

First let me say you dont bleed like that when your pregnant.So for being pregnant, not likely. Your period was one day and u got it 2 weeks early too...sex can mess with ur cycle so maybe that can explain it. If you had sex after getting your period that time then its possible you could of gotten pregnant. all i can think of is maybe your cycle is just very confused or maybe you are having a miscarraige but i dont know if miscarraiges last longer than a day or two.Sorry i cant be of any more help.

Answer 9

You should have waited until marriage. REALLY. What a treat and great gift on your wedding night. Anyways, sorry, but the first thing that came to my mind when you explained your symptoms in maybe an STD. Actually miscarriages occur fast and usually not all that bleeding and cramping occur so early in pregnancy. Go back to the Health Unit and tell them you MUST get help.

Answer 10

You know as the old saying goes "God Works In Mysterious Ways" maybe this one wasn't meant to be. Go to the doctor and find out. Maybe it wasn't forming correctly or something worse. I'm sure you are a healthy young woman and keep praying and have faith it will happen when it is intended. Good Luck!