for a few months my 2 best friends have been fighting and one of them have been blaming me for something I haven't done. I'm always in the middle getting blamed and hearing them fight. I am still friends with one but I would really like to be friends again with my other friend again.
2006-11-16 10:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by Lea12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Best thing to do is talk to them both separately and let them know that there friendship is very important to you, but that you dont appreciate being put in the middle of their fight.
Tell them that you want to remain friends with both of them, but
that you will not engage in negative talk about the other.
You are there for them if they need you, but dont expect you to
dump one for the other.
If they are TRULY your friends they will understand.
Of course.........it will cause some drama so watch out for that
and dont fall into it.
2006-11-16 10:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...That happens to me ALL the time...See I have a lot of friends...But only a couple good friends & 2 BEST friends...but my Best friends HATE eachother...1 talks about the other,& the other one wants to fight the other...but I tell them be nice & stuff...but what I do is I dont hang out with niether of them...just my othetr friends...just until they stop fighting...& I make sure I don't talk behind there backs or anything so I dont get in the middle or blamed for anything...As for you I think you should hang out with some other friends till they stop fighting...& make sure that you don't talk about either of them too...& maybe you should have a sleepover & invite both of them,mske sure theres lots of fun stuff to do,they might stop fighting because they are having so much fun...
I'm sory if this didnt help...I HOPE it did because I know form personal experiance it can b hard=)
2006-11-16 10:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by penguin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know your situation, but if they were really your friends you should be able to tell them how you're feeling. i often get caught in the middle of my friends' fights and i straight up tell them that i hate being the middle man and that i don't want to choose sides. if there ever comes a time when one of them talks bad about the other friend to you, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and say you don't want to hear that. sounds to me like this fight just needs to end. you said they're your best friends, so don't give up on either of them. don't play messenger, either. that's no way to solve it.
2006-11-16 10:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friendship is about love and respect, if you do not get along with another human being, then end the pain and especially words you cannot always take back, when you say them in anger........
2006-11-16 10:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lesha a Canadian. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your superb mate might desire to win . His larger greater desirable. yet your skinny chum might desire to be rapid and versatile so i dont recognize . you will possibly desire to truly tell them to no longer combat cos it wont come to a variety issues and might get alot of people exceedingly the lads mom and dad very disillusioned . take a seat them down and confer with a minimum of one yet another bout whats incorrect .
2016-10-04 01:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy 50 gallons of custard and put it in a swimminng pool and chuck them both in there bikinis and tell them to go for it , they will sort out there differances
2006-11-16 10:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to this friend that she is wrong and tell her how much her friendship means to you.do this while alone away from others who may influence her decision
2006-11-16 10:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and tell them stop acting so childish its only hurting the friendship .
2006-11-16 10:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by sinners bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get in the middle...get new friends
2006-11-16 10:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if that peson is blamming it on u than that is not a nice friend
2006-11-16 10:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋