Why do some women assist/abet the rape of other women?

Question

I heard this on the news...a woman was being raped by a man.... his wife walked in(this was in the guys house)..... instead of helping the woman,she slapped her and walked out.
I have heard other stories as well..... why do these women do this?!

Ohh....come on people!! i even read in the newspaper about some german couple that molested children and murdered them..... dont u people read the news?? (ok this was a few years ago)

Answer 1

You have undoubtedly heard of Karla Homolka who helped her husband PaulBernardo in the kidnapping rapes and murders of young girls in Canada where he was dubbed The scarborough rapist . there is a study of her done by someone named Galligan and called The Galligan report that goes like this:Pivotal to legal and psy evaluations of Karla Homolka is the study "Compliant victims of the sexual sadist" (Hazelwood et al., 1993). Where Galligan falters, unable to account for the gap between the degree of Homolka's abuse and her abuse of others—the gap between moral compulsion and moral agency—the study is the missing link. The study also closed gaps for psy evaluators. While conceding her abuse and duress, a psychiatrist retained by the Crown writes, "Karla Homolka remains something of a diagnostic mystery. Despite her ability to present herself very well, there is a moral vacuity in her which is difficult if not impossible to explain".'5 After reading the study, he found "a number of parallels with this case" which were "so striking as to be worthy of particular attention" (p. 155). Yet his conclusion, if any, is not recorded.

The study documents technologies of compliance used to control domestic partners by sexual sadists, defined as men sexually aroused by pain and degradation. Sexual sadists believe that women are by nature morally corrupt and corrupting, and "prove" this corruption by degrading and sexually torturing them. Their partners, having demonstrated their corruption by engaging in sexual perversity, "deserve" further punishment. This induced compliance confirms sadists' beliefs about women. Researchers interviewed seven partners of sexual sadists identified in the FBI database. All were sexually naive "nice" middle or upper-middle class women, professionally successful and of higher socioeconomic status than their partners. They were "non-aggressive" and "guilt-ridden" about the relationships, which lasted from three months to 13 years (Hazelwood eal., 1993, p. 475). As children, four women had been sexually abused, two physically abused and six psychologically abused. Compliance was induced in stages, beginning with romance and seduction and progressing to degradation and brutalization. sexual activities were introduced with psychological reinforcement, positive for compliance (compliments and attention) and negative for refusal (pouts and rejection). Regimes of increasingly brutal sex, social isolation and violence followed. Anal sex was the preference of all sadists in the study. Forced object penetration (usually anal, with such objects as a 12-cell flashlight), "scripting" women to say things pleasurable to their partners and recording in photographs, audiotapes and drawings were characteristic. All women reported painful prolonged bondage, all were beaten, all were bitten, six were strangled, five were whipped, four were hung, four were burned, three were forced into sex with others and four were forced into criminal acts, . tis whole thing is available at
http://www.umanitoba.ca/faculties/law/Courses/McGillivray/Karla_Homolka.html
I guess it is a sort of explaination, but I do not believe there is justification no matter what any report says.

Answer 2

Such rarity occurs and that's why the 'rare' is included in the dictionary. Inherently every woman possesses jealousy and this makes to hate other woman if the latter has certain qualities which the former doesn't. The example given by you is the rarest which any woman should be ashamed of. The human mind is the most complicated thing to be understood!

Answer 3

it puts me in awe and wonder how some people believe women are all sweet and innocent. if you really think about it, its not that strange. elizabeth bathory sexually assaulted and mutalated over 300 girls. it could be she thought her husband was cheating on her, it could be jealousy. some women are just messed up severely in the head.
it is a dominating thing. if you rape someone, its not sexual, its purely domination.
as for the german couple, people do that. lots of mothers have killed there children, lots of men have killed there children, but you must realize it is also the other way around, lots of children kill there parents. its all about the brain and how it works. no one will ever know why people do these things, except for the people doing them, and alot of times they dont even know why they are.
simple as that.

Answer 4

In the first instance you mentioned, it's pretty clear that the woman didn't believe it was a rape. Not wanting to imagine her husband as a rapist, she probably figured it was consensual.

In the second instance, what does that german couple have to do with women assisting/abetting rape? These were two sick pedophiles. They were assisting and abetting each other.

Can you actually come up with ANY evidence that women actually assist men in raping women? Please let us know.

Answer 5

The women probably thought the husband was having an affair and that is why she walked out. This is crazy! As for the German couple molesting and killing children, that is self explanatory, they were some very demented individuals. God bless*

Answer 6

we don't see that because's much less conventional that it occurs to men than women (of those reported this is.) it is not socially proper for a guy to come again out and say that he grew to become into raped via a woman. To be further right down to an extreme element of vulnerability via a individual of lesser-privileged status could be extra embarrassing. people might say "You enable a woman try this to you?", which could be an insult to the sufferers experience of masculinity. additionally, commenting on previous solutions, men do no longer rape by way of fact of extra intercourse stress. Rape isn't on the subject of the intercourse, it particularly is approximately domination and ability.

Answer 7

well i guess when a woman see her husband naked and having sex with another woman, she does not think positively?..
it's in us humans..we don't usually think logically when we are put under this kind of circumstances..in the woman's mind she thinks that it is some kinda ***** or the husband is having an affair and caught red-handed..who would thought that the husband would bring a woman back home and raped her?

i guess after she had calmed down she would have realize her mistakes..well human make mistakes..don't push the blame to her..we thinking about it i haven't read this news before anyway

Answer 8

I've certainly never heard of that either ... however, the only thing that I can think of to logically explain it, is that the woman did NOT KNOW that the woman was being raped and thought she was being cheated on.

Answer 9

Let's see... Crystal Hendricks went out and picked up girls, drugged them, and raped them (along with her boyfriend) while video taping it.
Karla Holmolka is another... drugged and raped and killed at least two girls (including her sister) with her husband.

I'm constantly amazed by how suprised some people are to hear that women are as capable of horrific violence as men are, and the lengths that these people will go to excuse / justify these womens violence.

"Must have been brainwashed...." Nonsence

Answer 10

I bet it is that syndrome where the man has brain washed the women to the point she actually goes along with the man...

Rape is not about sex, it is about control and humiliating someone else so the rapest feels superior. Man or Woman both rape....

Answer 11

WTF?! I have never heard of that in my life.

You know, that is precicely the reason I stopped reading the newspaper and watching the news. That is the only thing they report on anymore unfortunatley. There are depraived, deplorable things happening in the world, but that's not the only thing that needs to get reported on.