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sometimes i think i am ugly and i look in the mirror and think i am nice looking and dress nice, but why on earth do i think i am ugly often and badly dressed when i am not. just wondered.

2006-11-16 10:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Social Science Psychology

15 answers

You're normal. Everyone feels ugly now and then. The media encourages those negative expectations, ignore them.

2006-11-16 10:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by childrenofthecorn 4 · 1 0

Very often we accept what other people tell us as our truth. This is not The Truth. These people are emotionally wounded and spew their toxins everywhere. With out even seeing you I KNOW YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. There is a saying , beauty is only skin deep , ugly is to the bone . What a load of horse apples. This was generated by a self important self righteous arrogant wounded human. Power over is abuse and karma with deal with them eventually. I do love karma.
True Beauty is soul deep and it is eternal. The appearance of ones being is irrelevant . By Being nothing we are everything. The great love you have for yourself the more beautiful you are externally. I love me, I love me. When you look in the mirror say with heart felt compassion to your best friend (You) "I LOVE YOU !" repeat often until this is the first thing you think of when you look in the mirror.

2006-11-16 18:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0 0

Fortunately, like beauty, what you see is only skin deep.

So what if you are badly dressed. I turn on my TV and can see dozens of those under 35 (and sometimes Over) who are 'badly dressed and have hairstyle of chickens or the bird of Paradise.

Just wait 20 years and look back at the pics and see what you see then ....You are going to be oh so amused.

Sash.

2006-11-16 19:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0 0

Why do you think you're ugly when you're not? That sounds like an incredibly self-indulgent statement designed to portray yourself as a natural victim when, in fact ,you are actually blessed with every opportunity. Stop trying to find reasons out of your control for a mediocre life and realise that you can make the difference. Stop trying to be a victim, you're not, you have every opportunity, use your life.

2006-11-16 18:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 4 0

Believe me beauty is not physical, it s about charm & there is nobody ugly God has given every one of us a share of beauty , I think your problem is low self esteem, try to highlight the good things in you & look at them & most of all LOVE YOURSELF , & LOVE THE WAY YOU LOOK, remember that you can never satisfy the other so just satisfy yourself & through this you will see everything as beautiful.

2006-11-16 19:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0 0

Get a well lit mirror, or better yet one of those true reflection mirrors that reflects in the same manner as people see you.

You are probably so good looking you are nit picking.

a bulimic sees a fat person in the mirror

2006-11-16 18:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think most ordinary people, like you and me, have our good days and our bad days. We could all improve our looks a little bit by paying more attention to personal grooming and clothes but we could all look a mess on days we don't pay enough attention. We are not movie stars. That's why we don't look cool when we are not making an effort.

2006-11-16 18:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Because u have a low esteem from years of people telling you to change that one thing and ull be pretty and so on. And from looking at magazines and pictures of models and other people who are fake and depend on plastic surgery and other such things for their beauty. Ure beautiful. trust the mirror and yourself :-)

2006-11-16 18:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

You are sufffering from low self esteem. Remember that there is no way you are "supposed" to look because everybody is different, and that is ok!!

2006-11-16 18:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 1 0

i get this trouble and do you know what i do....
i go downtown & see some right "MINGERS" then that makes one feel beautiful again...especially the ugly people in essex lol

2006-11-16 18:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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