Ok, so heres the story. everyday i eat lunch at school with my friends, but one of my friends is really starting to annoy me. she makes fun of everything i eat. she makes fun of how i eat my food, what i eat, and how much i eat. like when i only bring one 2 pieces of cheese she says "only two pieces, omg, you are so weird" or when i have some candy that she doesn't like she says "omg, how can you eat that, that is the most disgusting thing i have ever seen, you are so gross" its really starting to bug me, because she does it all the time. but heres the problem, i am not the kind of person to just go out at tell her that i don't like what shes saying to me, and i don't want to find new friends because normally i really like her, what should i do to make her stop? like maybe some good comebacks or something, please help, i really need it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 10:11:12 · 9 answers · asked by ILTASKWAMH 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u have to talk to her, and tell her that she is annoying u, and see whats the problem, because if u dont communicate u will never know why she is doing this things.
2006-11-16 10:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by ~~Chiki~~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can be sure this is not a friend for life who will continiously bring u down even if u like her as a friend. My advice to u is to stay away from a girl who treats u like that. It would also be a good idea to continue being urself & when someone comes along who likes u for u & support u then hold on to that special friend...good luck.
2006-11-16 18:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stoop so low as to have come backs...just ignore her and believe me she'll stop..don't even respond to her and she''ll get the point that she's not bothering you. My son is 10 yrs old and he loves orange and yellow bell peppers uncooked...(lol) so what do i do? I cut them up and he brings them to school in a baggie...lmao...and some kids say OMG thats GROSS and yes thats wierd..but what did i tell him to say ...don't look at me you don't have to eat it! Sure enough one little boy had no snack for snack time and he offered him some pretzels or some (lol) peppers and he tried them...whatta know boy brings in peppers!.....IGNORE HER...she'll get over it!
good luck...
JAE
2006-11-16 18:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. JAE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes...being honest with your friend is the only thing that will open her eyes. What she is saying is so mean and hurtful. Sometimes you just have to take the risk and tell your friend that she is hurting your feelings. If she is a true friend, telling her so should not destroy your friendship.
As for a comeback line....will I hate to be caddy, but....
ask her when she started working for Weight Watchers?
2006-11-16 18:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have had similar problems.....she just likes to bug you! next time bring her favourite food to school-she wont have anything bad to say about that!
2006-11-16 18:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by *Cherry* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i'll tell you that i would just come up and spil milk on her head. But since youre that kind of a person, just ignore her for a while. She will soon get tired of you not getting mad at her, and she will stop. She just wants you to really get mad and all that stuff.
Well that's wat i think you should do.
2006-11-16 18:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dimitriy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try doing it back. make remarks on HER food.. and maybe she will see how it feels and she will stop bugging you!! just keep diong it until she gets the point. eventually.. she will.
2006-11-16 18:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by lala89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although ur not that kind of person to say "i dont like what ur saying", just tell her look i dont like it when you critize me about how much i eat and what i eat.
2006-11-16 18:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by iloveyou.<3. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should sit somewere else and say please stop if not ignore her and say something
2006-11-16 18:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋