I used to meet guys on the internet....I didn't see anything wrong with it a year ago when I actually started chatting on the net...BUT I KNOW NOW SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN IT BEING WRONG, its taken care of.
Anyways, people at school are always askin me who my BF is now n I'm getting really annoyed. "Do you do naughty things with him?" "Did you meet him on the net?"
"How old is he?" "How's the internet chatting going?"
I'm not mentally stable to take this anymore. Nowadays I take meds so I don't think suicidally. I don't need you to tell me "you have so much to live for" cause thats what my therapist is for btw.
I went through hell last year when my dad was sent off to Iraq n I was stuck with my family n a newborn brother. Then, all this bad stuff happened in school n now I just want things to get better. I'm starting to think suicidally again and I need help...these kids didn’t understand why I needed comfort from strangers, so why would they understand that I want to die?
2006-11-16 09:50:34 · 9 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if YOU don't understand why I needed comfort from strangers, read "Lost in Yonkers" act 2 scene 2 when Bella talks to Grandma Kurnitz....
No one, not even counselors, would tell me that I have something to live for not long ago, so I needed other people to do it...and some guys did...they'd hold me n say I'm pretty....BUT I'm OVER THAT NOW.
I have a BF who loves me n I'm stable....I didnt meet him on the net btw.
I just want these kids to shut up. My eyes hurt from rubbing them so damn much after I cry.
2006-11-16 09:55:03 · update #1
I'm "stable" in my relationship....just not mentally....n I don't wanna tell my bf cause I'm afraid he'll give me brochures to a mental insitution.... I just need some advice. These kids also cyber bully me. This is SICK now
2006-11-16 09:57:11 · update #2
wow...real deep! u know, i used to do the same thing and think the same things..its scary and you dont know to control it, i thought i could die by being too anerexic to eat, but when i had dropped 50 pounds i saw a doctor, he turned my life around! you shouldnt do what i did! i was massively skinny and i would have died, but now i cry when i see my christmas pic from last year when i was in a size 8 kids at age 12.pleaase dont be like me, you can fight this! about the kids at school, just ignore them, even my enemies helped me through that rough patch! you'll be fine, just pllleeaaasse dont take your life away, im saying this from the heart!
2006-11-16 09:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hiya Hun,
I had a really crappy Teenage years, (as you can guess I'm not now !!!) tell them to butt out of your life. You have to realise how wonderful and special your are. You are important, don't ever think of ending it all. I tried repeatedly, (obviously didn't work !!) But it didn't make me feel better either. I spent many years feeling very misunderstood and i craved love from strangers, so I'm trying to understand you. Please look after yourself, if you need to, walk away from them and give yourself some space and time.
2006-11-18 03:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 05:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look wat u should or im advicing u to do is talk to sum1 u trust or get to know strangers around u so theyll shut up n know wat u about.Look things in muh school aint all that u have a bf evry1 wants to know wat u do,say,act,or feel like u just have to ignore it if u cant tell them straight up u dont dont want them asking u about yo personal life n thats not nobodys bussiness n u dont like talking about it.
2006-11-16 10:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by caitlyn_so_fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down.
and i believe, that it is human nature to be "nosy" and want to pole around your friend's personal life.
so you don't have to blame them that much too! just tell them directly to stop asking you such questions as you hate it. but be sure not to hurt their feelings too.
2006-11-17 04:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by `teeveebee- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you need to go in the hopsital to get yourself sorted out. there is no shame in it. talk to your parents and be truthful about it all
2006-11-16 11:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow the last post say's it all.
if you always do what you have always done, you will ALLWAYS GET WHAT YOU'VE ALLWAYS GOT!
All the best!
Sincerly Neil
2006-11-16 10:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by pvnjm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to stop asking to shut up is your life they should get one
2006-11-16 11:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you change schools.
2006-11-18 01:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋