To a woman, being eaten out by a man is the ultimate turn on, & a woman won't feel completely feminine unless his vagina is licked and eaten out intensely by a man. i married a good man, alright, but he doesn't know that a woman should & always wants to be eaten. My lover knows this eternal need of any girl, & he loves eating me out, anywhere, anytime. This alone is already enough justification for my affair, right? I mean, is there a woman out there who would deny herself being eaten out?
2006-11-16 09:44:18 · 29 answers · asked by Yvette R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, you're just a wh*re
2006-11-16 09:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
While I agree with your insatiable need to be eaten out (girl, I love it too!), I do NOT agree with your choice to cheat on your husband. Since you are asking this question, you already know the answer: that your actions are totally and completely wrong.
Your affair is a selfish thing on your part; because you are not getting what you want at home, you have chosen to stray. There are very many ways to simulate cunnilingus, and I have tried most of them, because my husband doesn't want to eat me either. Most of the ideas I get are from www.clitical.com.
What you should do is talk to your husband and a licensed sexual therapist. That way, you will find out what hang-ups your husband has about cunnilingus, and why he won't perform on you.
In the meantime, let the lover go. I know it will be hard (no pun intended), but for the sake of your marriage, do it now. Good luck.
2006-11-16 11:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right. Unfortunately as you can read people can not understand you here. There are a lot of prejudice moved by religion, moral and other stupid beliefs that people can not surpass. It is easier to simplify or give obvious advising. It is har to believe that people think you never tried to ask, bag, talk to him about it before. Your question is very clear and mature. Sex is very important and yes you must have your fantasies and desires fulfilled. It is a pity you must have an affair to have it but you have no choice at all. Keep your beloved husband but also keep your mental health. It is justified!
2006-11-16 13:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Guru 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl, it might sound wrong to everyone else, but I totally agree! I LOVE to be eaten out. It makes me feel so much like a woman! My man doesn't do it either, unless its 69 and I initiate! Sometimes, I just want to lay there and enjoy it, and I have told him this. When I told him he did it like twice, and then went back to his same old ways.
In your situation, I would have to say that if you have told him how much you like it, and you take care of yourself down there, then he should do it if he loves you, and if he doesn't... well hell, we only live one, so get it while the gettins good!
Happy lovemaking!!
2006-11-16 10:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are about as nasty as anyone can get.........your husband is a wise man for not wanting to do this because you are a scumhole and he obviously is better than that. The only thing that is justified is that you are a TRAMP
2006-11-16 10:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no justification for an affair. If you are not happy then divorce him and carry on with your lover.To screw around on him shows a lack of respect for him, your"lover" and yourself. I also hope he catches you and divorces your sorry but and leaves youwith nothing.
2006-11-16 09:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all your treating your hubby like crap secondly maybe he doesn't know what to do so he is afraid to try. and lastly stop cheating if that's the way your going to treat your bonds before god then you should just tell your hubby and get a divorce your pathetic.
2006-11-16 09:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY MEN DON'T LIKE TO DO THAT...IT IS AS CLOSE AS YOU CAN GET TO SOMEONE . IF YOUR NOT HAPPY IN THE MARRIAGE THEN YOU NEED TO DIVORCE AND IN THE MEAN TIME ENJOY THE ATTENTION FROM YOUR LOVER...AIN'T NOTHING BETTER THAN GETTING THAT ATTENTION AND GIVING IT TOO. SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE RESPONDED ACT LIKE THEY ARE HOLIER THAN THOU AND THEY NEED TO QUIT PUTTING THEMSELVES UP ON A PEDASTLE, I BET IF THEIR SECRETS WERE OUT OF THE CLOSET WE WOULD SEE THEY HAVE BEEN JUST AS BAD...GO GIRLS AND ENJOY EVERY LICK OF IT.
2006-11-17 02:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by kittykitty 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're obviously too immature, selfish, self absorbed and self-centered to be married. Do you even understand what the word love means? Please do the world a favor and use a permanent form of birth control.
2006-11-16 11:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No your affair is not justified. I've read your other questions, and I am continually unimpressed with you and your logic. I feel such pity for your husband.
Good Day, Madam.
2006-11-16 09:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is one of the things I look for in my side men!!! If their tongue doesn't stick out more then 3 inches they aren't going to be with me!!! Good luck on keeping both men happy.
2006-11-16 10:08:33 · answer #11 · answered by wildladyreba 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋