was on/off 4 2 yrs bc he's preMed n a JERK bc of "stress".he would cry n say he'd change and he did around the 8th month.but then i had to leave school for a semester n took a break w/him.afterwards we were together again but his parents hated me.last time we broke up he refused to get back together n he went on a date with another grl(frm his class).i got so mad i rebounded with a new guy we both knew(i broke up with him today bc he's so sweet n i didnt want to use him further).the next day i find out my ex is in a relationship with that girl he went on 1 date w/.i was so sad i went to his apt and cried.he looked sorry but when i called him he would be a jerk n tell me that i'm a waste of his time n that i should "leave them alone".so my roommate told me to write a letter/see him for one last day.i asked him about it, and he said:i don't have time to read your essays n i don't have time for u!...so i told him i need to stop seeing him,n THEN he wanted to c me fri. WTH??(i sed HEII no)
2006-11-16 09:43:42 · 7 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he likes the attention. this guy sounds like a douche. leave him alone and get on with your life.
2006-11-16 09:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. cut thru the drama, and read between the lines: He doesn't "have time" to read your "essays"? obviously he doesn't care how you feel. he just wants to use u when he "misses" you, but he doesn't want to COMMIT to you.
u need to have a fresh outlook on what is important in ur life. start taking some time out to work on Yourself! work on ur Appearance, exercise, take care of ur body, skin, get a new hair style, buy some new, flattering clothes. then, work on your Mind, study harder in school, read more, learn more, have an Open mind, discuss more, join activities. then, work on your Relationships, with family, friends, eventually friends of friends and even strangers, like teachers, coworkers, students, etc.
the more confident and independent as a Woman u are, the more Attractive u will be to a Man. u have to be strong enough to take care of urself, as well as ur future boyfriend~ no one likes drama u know? so take a breather, let go of this jerk, and start over! good luck girl....trust me, the happier you are in ur life in general, the more u have to contribute to a relationship.
2006-11-16 17:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want what they cant have. They keep exs on the back burner "in case" the new chick doesnt work out. Leave him alone girl. You are wasting precious time you could be spending in search of your soul mate.
2006-11-16 17:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, DUH! You do need to leave them alone! If you're never going to see him again then you need to do as he has and move on with someone you wont be in with this on/off crap and maybe something more meaningful. The reason he wants to see you Fri is so he can tell you in yo face. Save yourself the trouble of this note and 'one last day' BS as your roomie suggested. You deserve better, so grow up.
2006-11-16 17:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you as a backup. he wants to know you will always be there.
2006-11-16 17:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by pikachu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe there's still love for you.
2006-11-16 17:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life and move on ...ITS OVER...
2006-11-16 17:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋