I am afraid that i won't be able to find the right perfect girl for me that i can spend the rest of my life with. I see everyone with other people being so happy and etc and yet i coudln't find one for myself.
2006-11-16 09:31:37 · 18 answers · asked by jack l 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You may find someone when you're 20, 30, 40, or even 50, does not matter when or how, it only matters that God has brought the two of you together. It will happen when and if the time is right. If you never marry, fear not, for all you truly need is the love of God. God bless.
2006-11-16 09:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 10⤋
Afraid Of Dying Alone
2016-10-22 06:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by schuller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you'll find someone. Other people seem happy, but no relationship is perfect. It takes a lot of effort. Being single isn't always so bad. Date around and go places where you could meet someone that shares in your interests. Sometimes it sort of just happens. Everyone does feel that way from time to time so you're not alone in that aspect.
2006-11-16 09:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by baneoverlord 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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The problem may be your view of death. Of course, nobody alive REALLY knows what necessarily happens after we pass. Although, maybe you can find comfort in remembering that death is just as natural as life. Everything in nature goes through this cycle...think of the seasons from Spring to Winter and relate that to human existence, it is all connected. Spring always comes again, even after the harshest Winter. You are here now with probably no prior knowledge of a previous existence. What's to say that you can't be here again? Don't live your life in fear because then you won't be living at all. Seize each moment and love the people that you care about today. When they pass, your grief will be counter-balanced by the happiness remembered from times in which you shared with your loved ones. You'll find comfort in the arms of people who ARE still around and who also love you. You'll never be alone. Remember that you are from the Earth and as such, all that is natural around you is, in essence, familial. I hope this message finds you well. Through mourning comes understanding and through understanding comes peace of mind. - J.S. Brady
2016-04-08 05:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 59 and still alone. I look around and know there are worse things but I do feel like I've missed out. All I can say is its never too late, a couple just got married at the "home" where my Dad lives and they were 86 and 84. If you really want someome in your life I hope you find her--good luck and keep loking.
2006-11-16 11:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by MUD 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Sj. In the past, I´ve been through something almost the same as these you are telling there. I think professional help is welcome, if the one is a good therapist. Good therapists can make a good "tool" for you, against this problem. I think it would be good to you to practice sports with other people. You know, not the "alone sports" type. It may help you change the contents of your mind. It would make more hard for the mind to keep thinking these things, and it could feed your self-trust. You need more of that, I think. It seems, I may be wrong, you too scared of life right now. Well, that thing about sports is one counsel. I have to leave, now, sorry. But good luck! You´ll get through this! =]
2016-03-19 09:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like that sometimes also. i'm afraid of growing old alone. more then anything, i'm afraid of lonliness. the more i live, though, the more i realize that i am a person unto myself. there are always things i can do to not be alone, meet new people etc. the older i get though, i realize that i'm okay with just one. just me. i know that i felt like that because i was unsure of myself. now i am, and i know what i want in life. i think you'll feel however you want to feel, but i hope you become comfortable with being happy just the way the day is.
2006-11-16 09:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by LaurenElizabeth 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm skerd of dieing alone to :( my first boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend on valentines day I made him chocolate Hart cookies he took them off me gave them to her and EVRYONE beated me up because he was popular :( I have been on this earth for 14 yiyers I know I still have a full life ahead of me I haven't even had a guy tell me I'm cute I have had my first kiss on a dear I wish I dident waste it but I have never told a guy I love him I won't till I whant to marry him.. I get bulled because I won't have sex till I'm marred or tell a guy I love him only if I whant to marry him but just remember you won't die alone. The ones that cear are usually the ones that don't die alone ^.^ (plus wishing on flowers or sacrificing a bug dosent work I did that when I was 10 haha)
2014-07-29 11:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by shona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop looking. Once you stop looking she'll find you. If that doesn't work there are always places like match.com that do a good job of scientifically finding people you are compatible with...it may sound stupid but it does work (maybe not right away since there is more than compatibility at issue, but eventually...)
Anyway don't let it get you down; the fact that your thinking about it means that you might be more ready to settle down at this time which is a good thing.
2006-11-16 09:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I grew up a little afraid of approaching women because I didn't have any sisters.
Just suck it up. Tomorrow. Yes, tomorrow, approach a totally random girl and ask her out. It will be the hardest thing you've ever done, but also the most rewarding.
If she rejects, which she may, at least you will know you summoned up the courage. I bet (as long as she's not out of your league) that she will at least agree to a date. You will feel the most empowereing feeling you have ever felt. It is a win-win situation. Just make sure she's not married.
2006-11-16 10:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew R 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. A good woman does not deserve someone who is an unrealistic idealist about love.
2. Nothing is ever perfect, nor are you.
3. If you are out doing your hobbies that involve groups, you'll meet someone. Make sure you like her, not just love her.
4. Make a list of what you are looking for. Then, go over the list and check off what is not realistic.
5. Next, make a list of what you have to bring to the table for a woman to want & love you. It can be very enlightening.
Good Luck and Warm Regards.
2006-11-16 09:42:32 · answer #11 · answered by mitch 6 · 4⤊ 3⤋