she tell me that shes moving and how herand the ex dont talk but deep inside i cant understand that ****, i feel like just leaving her cuz i feel funny about it, all she can tell me is nothing is going on, i think its bullshit, she be at my house all the time but like i tell her it dont mean **** to me, she got my name on her arm and i told her that it dont mean **** what should i do, could it really be that nothing is going on, what should i do
2006-11-16 09:27:53 · 11 answers · asked by robin r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well dont try to get gurls get guys mann you probally shouldnt be wit the gurl but since both of you guies r nasty lik dat den be wit eachother 4get bout her ex
2006-11-16 09:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by SHORTIELIKEMINE 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I have been in situations where I lived with exs for convenience. It is possible that they are not sleeping together. The best thing to do is hang out with both of them and see if you get a vibe that something is going on. Lesbians are like an open book when they like each other. Guys can sit in the same room with two girls they are screwing and ignore the side-chick...females at least throw looks every now and then. If you cant trust her, tho, the relationship wont work. Gay relationships are hard enough without conflict between the two of you.
p.s. Congrats on coming out newbie!
2006-11-16 09:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should learn how to trust her, and you should suggest to live together since she is your gf now. There is a reason why that other person is her ex, she put an X on her. Don't be jealous, trust is so important in any relationship!
2006-11-16 09:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes not sure what she wants. If she was she would make a stronger effort to move out. you should confront her and tell her how your feeling...don't be so defensive just be straight up and tell her she has till give her a certain date and say to get out and be fully commited to you...if she doesnt then tell her that its over!
2006-11-16 09:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she lives with her ex? why dont you let her move in with you until she moves? then you will be at ease. if she refuses.. you know something is going on in which case you leave her. but dont leave her over soemthing you dont even know is true!
2006-11-16 09:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by lala89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely permit me tell u something im sixteen too and fogeys only dont get us so in spite of if ur mom doesnt get u dont stop being acquaintances with him. i think of ur mothers aggravating that u will do sexual intercourse with him (in spite of if u do it doesnt make u gay) so the considerable difficulty is that u comprehend ur at cutting-edge, and if ur mom is so no longer worry-free to convince i'd say permit her capture u doing it on at cutting-edge porn lol (on purpose) or something like that or permit her locate ur grimy magazines (placed them someplace obvious)
2016-10-15 15:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it all depends on the trust factor!!! honey im sure that there is really nothing going on between them. tell her your feelings and let her know your opinion. ask her what she wants and then tell her what you want, then come to a mutual agreement. god bless and i hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-16 09:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by torch_flameon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she generally honest?
If you cannot stand the feelings of jealousy then either your gf will have to move or you'll have to separate.
2006-11-16 09:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes not doing anything if you want ask her to move in with you
2006-11-16 09:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by good girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered your question earlier. She is full of it!!! DUMP HER!!!!! There are plenty of women out there that don't play games and treat their boyfriends like crap. Do it and you won't regret it.
2006-11-16 09:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋