Ok to make it easy to understand Im going to use "names"..
Ok so my friend Rachel likes this boy.She been trying to get with him for the last 2 mounths but she is shy to give him her number. So Rachel(my friend) told me to give him her number.By the way my freind isnt really the type that gets alot of boys. She says herself she knows she isnt attractive.But the boy she likes is very attractive.So anyway today finally we saw him at our lunch in school.So she told me to give him her number qucikly after she leaves the lunch room. I told her No im too shy to do it so my other freind Rebecca said I will do it. So she went over there and said "hi my freind is trying to get with you heres her number". He still doesnt know what my friend look like. So as we was walking home later we saw him and he looked at me and smiled and said somthing and I asked him what we say but I was in a rush crossing the street I couldnt hear him. So then my friend Rachel started yelling at me and getting mad. She
2006-11-16
09:13:03
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She told me the reason why she was mad at me because now he likes me and I ruined the whole thing. These are her exsact words. "Now he thinks your the one who likes him. Im soo mad at you." I told her dont worry i dont even like him. But she was still mad at me.I think since Im a attractive person and she's not that had somthing to do with it. Do you think it was right for her to be mad at me????PLEASE HELP.. or should i apoligize to her?? Does she sound like a good freiend or Do I sound like a good friend? What should i say to her tommorow??
2006-11-16
09:16:43 ·
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If she's too shy to ask him out then she has no right to be mad at you especially if he was just saying something to you and you didn't even hear what he said.
2006-11-16 09:15:31
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answered by Ms. H 6
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i'm sure both of u are good friends. just don't mention the attractiveness, and just tell her he said something to you! it's not YOUR fault, and u didn't even talk to him u ran off. there's not much u can do really. just apologize (not because he likes u now, but because for some reason she is Upset, and as a friend u were somehow involved in a situation that upset her), and say that if he talks to you, u will let him know it's "Rachel" that is the girl who likes him. if she doesn't accept, just let some time go by. most likely than not he will not call her and that will be the end of that... or if he calls, she'll be so shy she wouldn't know what to do. just let it go and don't get involved in the drama!!!
2006-11-16 17:38:50
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answered by sasmallworld 6
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don't be so shallow
if you think it is about your looks then you are shallow
if she likes the guy she may try to connect with people she wants to be like
not like them but have the confidece they have in them selves sometimes having confident and lets say beautiful people as friends gives them the courage to show how they know they can be but can't do it on their own.
and you need to clear it up with him and if he says no to her then he was not worth the interest. if he looks at first looks he can't see the whole person, they ave not come out yet. and you should be shocked the ygo for looks and not who you are and the yare shallow but biys young boys and even immature men can't see pasts looks. the yare about image and that is hard to work with but if you think she can change his mind about her she should go for it life is about risks make sure what you take is worth yourwhile and don't regret,learn. don't be shy what do they know about you? a surpise of confidence and how you can do things with little fear can be the most attractive thing about a woman and jsut be friends until you know him and not jsut see him as a good looking guy, the deeper you see him you may not want him as much as you did first time you saw him.
2006-11-16 18:47:57
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answered by Anonymous
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if shes jealous about your looks then shes not really your friend..... if u wanna keep ur friendship going talk 2 tha guy she likes and mayb you can sort things out 1 more thing dont let boys come between ur friendship!!!!!!
2006-11-16 17:22:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Another day in the life of High school drama....come on sweetie, open your eyes. You have already answered your own question.
2006-11-16 17:17:03
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answered by Melissa M 3
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Thats why she should have done the dirty work herself instead of having someone else do it for her then this would not have been happening
2006-11-16 17:24:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Just remember your friends are forever - boys will come and boys will go - don't date a boy your friends like cause you will be all alone!!!
2006-11-16 17:16:53
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answered by HereweGO 5
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no its not right
and dont worry about it she insecure with herself thats why she acts that way
and yes she is jealous of you
2006-11-16 17:16:40
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answered by PASSION 3
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yes. she is jealous of your looks. because you are pretty and she isn't attractive. or
2006-11-16 17:14:16
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answered by Grasshopper 5
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