There's no one else in my life, but I don't want to be married any more.
2006-11-16 09:02:24 · 31 answers · asked by Robin C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no easy way telling someone you want to move on. You'll just have to talk to her, be honest. You sound so cold to me that I don't think councelling in this case is going to help to save your marriage. So, just do it and get it over with, so that she can also go on with her life.
2006-11-16 09:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn what did she do to deserve that from you? Why don't you want to be married anymore? Five years she has devoted her heart and soul out to you and now she has to hear that you want a divorce because you just don't want to be married anymore. That's crazy! I don't get why you asked her to marry you in the first place I can see if you decided this maybe like 6 months after marriage but not 5 years. Al I have to say is that I pray for you the day that you tell her that you want a divorce..........good luck!
2006-11-16 09:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by haynbabe808 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY...you don't love her anymore or you just want to be free???? maybe you too should take some time apart. Are you interested in someone else??? Or do you not like who she really is??? have you two grown apartt or have YOU drifted? Ask your self these questions....Just sit down and talk to her.If there is someone else and it's just you , than be honest! If you think you two have really grown apar, then i bet your not the only one that feels this way! Talk this out....But make sure you tell her how much you care before you become the barrier of bad news!
2006-11-16 09:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by NuNu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that, but I do not believe for one minute that there is no one else and having said that I hope if you do have someone else, she wants nothing to do with you after you screw up your marriage. Do your wife a favor and tell her the truth, give her the chance to find a man who's committments are not limited.
2006-11-16 09:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's no easy way to do that. I suggest that you approach the subject with care. Whatever you do don't be a kid about it. Let her know that this is not about someone else and try to explain your reasons for the way your feeling. Now she is going to be mad as hell when you tell her but allow her the right to be angry. Everyone deserves to be happy but sometimes we have to hurt people in order to find what it is we are truly looking for. I hope all goes well and that you find what it is your looking for.
2006-11-16 13:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by chillingmona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont want to hear about another divorce and i am glad to hear that there is no one "helping" you with this decision. But if you dont love her you have to tell her just make sure it is real and not a temporary thing cuz it is gonna hurt her and i hope that there is no kids involved because that is not a good thing. and make sure you will be ok seeing her with someone else cuz if you are not then you are making the wrong decision. good luck to you and i hope you guys can still be friends.
2006-11-16 09:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by ~annie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! How does one just decide they dont want to be married anymore. Are you sure that therapy wouldnt help you or the both of you? If your sure or dont even want to try therapy; you must sit her down and tell her. G'luk
2006-11-16 09:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she speaks english right. as long as you both share the same language, work it out.
me and my wife might divorce because of seriouse issues. How can you just say well its time to leave for really no reason.
2006-11-16 12:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by bradlitazole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have grown apart and our interest are not the same like they had been. You want to...... And I want to......... It might be best I think if we went our own way. If you think she will get made then do this in public and be prepared to not have to go home for a bit.
2006-11-16 09:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't feel that connection that you thought you felt the first time. You will know in your heat it's right. Don't make yourself miserable. You must have somewhere to go.
2006-11-16 09:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♥link♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋