too young to arrange an abortion, looking for medications(over the counter-drugs, drinks, or herbs to take at home to indure a miscarriage of the pregnancy at home
2006-11-16 07:59:22 · 18 answers · asked by T W 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I notice that you say "get rid of a pregnancy" and "miscarriage of the pregnancy." You do know there's a baby in there, right? You can't become "unpregnant" without killing your own child (or giving birth!).
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2006-11-17 05:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
There is no 'simple' way. The only way to 'get rid of a pregnancy is to have an abortion and if you want an abortion you have to tell your parents. When you have a daughter of your own your not going to want her to keep a secret like this from you. Your parents love you and will do anything to help you. I know this probably wont mean anything to you now but, there are so many couples out there that would die to have a child of thier own, and that precious baby your carrying right now has every right to be a part of this world just as you and me. I got pregnant at 14 and i gave her to a wonderful couple, yes it was hard but it was worth just to see the looks on their faces when they saw her, after the had been told that they would never be able to have a baby on their own. Please take this advice into consideration and really think about what your trying to do. good luck to you and your baby.
2006-11-16 08:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Boy! Please tell a parent. You have to go to a doctor. If your not that far along and your state permits it, you can get the night after pill. Then there is no surgery. But honey, you might not think nobody will understand, but some how, parents and you get through it. DO NOT do anything at home!! It will hurt you and IS NOT SAFE. You could do permanent damage to yourself. Talk to someone--an older sister, counselor, a friends mother, an aunt--anyone you trust. You have a very big problem for such a young girl. My prayers are with you.
2006-11-16 08:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no safe way to abort a baby. All methods have risks, even when in a hospital. You could possibly die trying to do this on your own. Find an adult who can help you if you feel you can't talk to your parents about this. An aunt, a friend's mom, a school counselor, someone you work with, etc. After this, please go buy some condoms and use them. There are millions of women out there who wish that they could get pregnant and look at you!
2006-11-16 08:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you need to keep your legs closed if you don't want to get pregnant. Second it is not wise to preform your own miscarriage unless you want to die. Third you would still need to see a doctor because you would have to have a D & C to removed everything. You need to go to your parents. Yes they will be unset with you but if you don't want a infection or to die I suggest you see a doctor.
What really gets me is that that there are so many families out there that want to have children and can't have them for what ever reason. Then there are people like you who is careless then wants to murder a baby because they were careless and had unprotected sex. Do you realize that 3 weeks into your pregnancy that your baby has a heart rate. It may not have a human form or is fully developed but it still has a pulse.
2006-11-16 08:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Staci R 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
No matter what your situation is you should NOT attempt performing an at home abortion. You are jeopardizing your life. Something could go terribly wrong.
Go to your local planned parent hood or talk to your school counselor, a friends mom or someone that can help if you're afraid to tell your parents.
2006-11-16 08:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously going to your parents isn't an option!
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
You can locate the closest one on their site.
It's not that much of a scary experience. They won't judge you! You need to call them or go there to schedule an appointment.
On the day of your appointment, they will have you do some paperwork (about 3 papers). If you don't have medicare or insurance, they will provide free treatment. Lie if you have to if you don't want your parents to find out.
Abortions and morning-after pills are performed/given at the last hour of the day (4-5, usually).
2006-11-16 08:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Gwyn 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There isn't anything you can do....you will have to tell your parents. Tell them now so you can deal with this with responsible adults. They might freak out, but they will be able to help you before you do something stupid! Nothing you can drink, swallow, whatever...will be able to cause a miscarriage. Or 'abortion' as you put it. There is only one way to do it, and that is with a trained professional.
2006-11-16 08:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2015-05-01 15:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO THIS BY YOURSELF!
Let me tell you something, when I was young... I'm willing to guess about your age... I also got pregnant. How is irrelevant at this point. Anyway, I felt the same way you do. I was so scared to tell my parents and knew I was too young to be a good mother. I went to planned parenthood for the definate pregnancy test and counseling, which I'm glad I did. In the mean time, I was scared to death to tell my parents. I didn't want to disappoint them with my irresponcibility and I was scared they would just kill me (or him). Well, my weird behavior gave me away. My mom figured it out. Your mom may have done the same thing and you have no idea. (no teenager gives mom enough credit). Well, when my mom confronted me, I didn't lie. She was PISSED. She screamed and yelled...My worst fear came true, AT FIRST. Now that I'm well in my 30's, i understand why... Remember how you felt when you first found out your were pregnant?? Angry or upset with yourself? If you could have yelled at yourself, would you? Do you want to smack yourself in the head and say, WHAT WAS I THINKING?? Well, how do you think your mom is gonna feel? Just like you needed time to let this sink in, your mom is gonna need time to let it sink in. Tell her or your dad and allow them space to yell and scream.. .maybe they will and maybe they won't. Either way, give them time. I thought for sure my mom was gonna kill me and then him. After she yelled and screamed, slammed the door to her room... she came out when she was calm. She approached me and I remember the look on her face... at that moment I needed her support and love so badly, i just started to cry. she held me and told me whatever I chose to do, she and my father would stand by me. i will not tell you what to do about your pregnancy, but wouldn't it be nice to know your parents or family will be supportive of you?? It helped me more than I can say.
The best thing I can tell you is this: You will seriously hurt yourself by doing this at home. Trying to hide it is not worth your life.
not to be too graphic, but would you rather tell your family you are pregnant or have them find you dead from you giving yourself an abortion?
I know it seems like they will hate you forever, I FELT THE SAME WAY!! Give the family member you chose time to let this information settle. let that person deal with the news in their own way, not the way you would like them to deal with it. once they calm down, they will support you! You must have faith in the people that love you the most.
2006-11-16 11:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sue A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋