Ok im 15 and im pregant my parents dont know my bf is not resonsible enough, what should i do??????

Question

help me

Answer 1

If you feel safe telling your parents (I mean if they are not physically abusive to you), then tell them now. If you dont feel safe then tell a counselor at school. You need help.

Answer 2

Talk to your parents and the BF- (he sounds like a real winner but as the father he needs to know, but he has no right to force you into making any decisions), so parents are the best option; Abortion leaves you with guilt and regrets, maybe not now but it catches up with you when you do have kids: Your parents have you so they know how to cope with bubs, and they love you to pieces so they will try to come to a conclusion with you that is best for you and bub. Remember that at 15 you have a whole life to live- this guy is not likely to be your one and only, and that baby is now your life-think of how you'd feel if that child came home at 15 preggers and remember that your parents will feel ten times that; Your dad will be most upset cause your his little girl- Maybe open with; "I love you both and I know that what I have to tell you will disappoint you so much. I need your advice and your support-I'm pregnant and I need to Make some big decisions about the changes that are coming into my life." Take their advice but remember to think for yourself. Best of luck.....and next time, wait until you have a husband who is responsible and loves you to bits.....not just some guy who loves your bits.

Answer 3

Hmm...I think you'd best be off letting your parents know. Yes, it seems strange and yes, your parents will be shocked. But they also love you, and they WILL know sooner or later. Better to be full-out honest and tell them sooner.

As for your bf who's not responsible...talk to him about it. Let him really know how you feel, your baby is your bf's son/daughter. And if youve already done that, then you need to leave him.

I also wouldn't recommend going through abortion; be smart, think about it. 20 years down the road, when you have children, how will you feel knowing you killed one before? Instead, talk over with someone you trust. Get some help. You've made one wrong decision, but you don't need to make any more.

Answer 4

Im 17 and have a 2 month old baby. When i first found out i was pregnant i did NOT want to tell my parents because i knew they were against sex before marriage. But honestly the best thing to do is tell your parents because i had it rough those first months of pregnancy and i had to deal with it alone since i didn't tell my parents. Not to mention the governernment does not help as well as they say they do. So tell your parents

Answer 5

You need to tell your parents. At 15 no child is responsible enough to provide exclusively for a baby. You will need your parents help to raise this child until you yourself are an adult.

Go to them and get help from them. Theyre sure to be upset, any parent would be. But when it comes down to it, if they had parented you better, and monitored you closer you wouldnt be pregnant as a teen in the first place.

Buck up, you'll be fine.

Answer 6

You should either have an abortion, or if that is against your values, talk to an adoption agency about placing your baby in a home where the parents are older and better able to care for a child.

If you want to have an abortion, you can find out where they are available closest to you from Planned Parenthood. (Web site below.)

If you choose adoption, you can still be involved in the baby's life if you choose "open adoption" -- you pick the family, you say how much contact you want in the future. See the web site below for more info.

Answer 7

ok I even have been there b4 at 15 you cant rush marrage.. Im 26 now and its no longer worry-free i like my spouse with all my heart yet there are days we've a rather good variety of issues ...there is plenty greater to being married than you loving the guy.. i'd be with the only you relatively take care of , tell the only which you're engaged to which you're to youthful and choose a while to end college.. and picture approximately issues ... you rather need to get by way of college and subject approximately your existence b4 you upload greater gas to the fire.. if he rather loves you he will understand.. Sorry if i didnt help plenty yet i actually think of you will desire to decelerate b4 you greater a foul choise and while you're 15 and he's eighteen that ilegal.. he would desire to be put in penal complex

Answer 8

Sweetie first dont panic...things happen and dont feel bad that it did. I know it is scary but telling your parents is the first step. I know a young girl who had a baby at 13 (pregnant at 12) and her mom helps her raise the child....my mom had my brother when she was 16 and we lived a wonderful life....tell your parents and get to the doctor...if you feel more comfortable maybe tell and aunt or older sister so they can sit with you to tell your parents...maybe even talk to your school counsler...you will be ok...just get the worst part out the way

Answer 9

Honey, you are going to HAVE to talk to your folks... probably your mom first unless you feel more comfortable with dad.

Unfortunately, I do not think there is any choice, most states require parental consent for any kind of procedures or even examinations performed on minors of which you are definitely one.

If you have another family member, someone close to you, you would rather talk to, then do that. Even if you have to first talk to your school counselor, you need to consult with a knowledgeable adult in YOUR life. Whatever you need to do to feel as comfortable as possible but you have to do it SOON. No matter what you are running out of time to be able to have options if that is what you desire.


Good luck...

Answer 10

First of all, your parents need to know. The sooner, the better. Secondly, your bf might not be responsible enough to take care of his baby, but he should still pay you child support. It takes two, my dear. Third, you have two choices...keep the baby or give him/her up for adoption. When I was 16 I opted to keep my baby. Life was hard, I missed out on a lot of high school things, but I don't regret it ever.

Answer 11

You should tell your parents. There are places you can go to help you out. Like pregnancy centers. If your worried about telling your parents just think that they might be more supportive than you think. They will always love you, you are their daughter. However don't wait too long because you need to start taking prenatal vitamins for your baby. Your baby should always come first.