and lonely that you wish you could be in heaven? As silly as it may sound.... with your pets that have died? Do you just wish you were away from all the misery that's here in life you just wish you could be in heaven with your pets, dogs, cats what ever, something that you love and they love you back without all the heart ache?
2006-11-16 07:18:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would really like a dog now but I live in London flat sharing and I have no garden, work full time so I cant really get one as it would not be fair...
2006-11-16 07:21:42 · update #1
I used to. A lot of my friends and family have been taken in horrific ways and I miss them but Ive other pals and family and pets aswell so life has to go on. You could be depressed, maybe your GP could help you or just go and see a good pal. Am sorry for your loss.
2006-11-16 07:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been that way when i lost my dog of 17 but then 6 months later i carried 7 week old buzz home on my motorbike in my jacket. Now aged 4 he jumps onto bike and has own helmet,doggles etc.He has even starred on Britain's top dog! I work full time and live in a flat. I used to drop him off with mother or a sitter till i finshed work.Now i work nights and i have a partner on office hours between us it works well.Once you take on the responsibility you wont ever be alone again and dog people are really nice people to know.You must have a plan beforehand . from James and buzz
2006-11-20 07:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy jenkers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually not really! I mean life isnt bliss. Some things can go wrong but you just have to live your life and let them go. Dwelling on the past is not a very constructive way of going about. Think of the future and all the great things in your life now such as your family and friends. Hope that helped. Be happy. :)
2006-11-16 15:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never wish I was dead, but I know what you mean. I tend to wish I had a hypothetical perfect man or as you say heartache free cat or dog though. When things get really bad I wish I could get away, run away, never have to see/ go back to whatever it is that is upsetting me again. But it has always got better so far. I hope you are ok...
2006-11-16 15:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have,but you have to live on for their sake and everyone else who care for you. Things do get easier with time. What helps is if you keep busy and ware yourself out with exercise or spring cleaning, whatever suits you. Get more fresh air and drink more water. Make nice plans for the future and pamper yourself. Do not give yourself time to dwell on the pain, or before you know it you will be in a deep depression that you may or may not come out of.
Ask yourself these questions, would others feel like you (Parents/sibblings etc) do now if anything happened to you? Would you loved one lost want you to go on living in memory of them?
It is a fight that you must take one day at a time.
Good luck!
2006-11-16 15:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by www welcome to milton keynes .com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it gets better with time. You only have one life to live and you should try and live it to the fullest. Time is of the essence and much to short to waste on thinking about things in the past or dwelling on your heart ache. Trust me I've been to the point where I even thought of ending my life. However life goes on and there is a blessing in every lesson. You have a purpose in life. You have to look within yourself for the answer.
2006-11-16 15:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i do wish that i could be with someone that had died and gone to heaven. You are not alone.
Try adopting a pet that will love you no matter what. And remember that there are humans out there that will love you that much to, no matter what you do.
-Alice
2006-11-16 15:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I used to feel very upset for quite a few years, then realised life was passing very quickly, read some self help books and began to take a positive approach to life and I feel great. if you are an animal lover why not offer to walk a friends' dog that way it's good for the dog and you. good luck
2006-11-16 15:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel that way. Some people just wish that they were with other people who love or appreciate them.
Believe it or not your feelings are normal, just don't dwell on them, suicide would not be the answer. Every problem has a resolution, it just takes time, effort ,willpower and patience to make it better
Hang in there.
I miss my kitties and doggies that have past on. :(
2006-11-16 15:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do wish I was dead from time to time i had as bunny called thumper he was really nice a put up with me but he just died I'd only had him for a year so I do wish I was in heaven with my great gran to she died the same year as my bunny rabbit thumper.
2006-11-17 17:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋