My bf does not understand how I feel when he does not kiss me when he gets home from work or takes me out with his friend’s. I can tell that he cars a lot about me but sometimes he just does not act that way. He never says that he loves me or bay me flowers or do anything special to make me feel wanted. He just does not understand what I am saying. I love him and want things to workout, but can’t tell if it’s me or him? Am I wrong to ask him to kiss me when he gets home, or to take me out with his friends and their gf’s?
2006-11-16 06:59:07 · 8 answers · asked by Pour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sit down with him on the couch, turn off the tv, and calmly and nicely express your concerns to him. Don't be shy, don't think you're being whiny, just tell him straight out what you want. Sometimes guys need to know exactly what you want.
If after doing this he is more affectionate, great! If nothing changes, try one more time. If nothing changes, move on. He will never change. Don't stay for 6 years trying to get him to change. You deserve more.
2006-11-16 07:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what is it that you do love about him? How do you know that he cares a lot about you if he doesn't show it? Never says he loves you? Never brings you flowers? Never kisses you? Never does anything nice for you? Never takes you out?
What are you getting out of this relationship, Honey?
2006-11-16 07:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should read the book men are from mars and women are from venus. This book really helps to understand little things that might be an issue in a relationship. My girl read this book and after she was done she had her bf read it too, this book really helped them understand one another.
2006-11-16 07:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE SHOULD WANT TO KISS YOU. THO MY HUSBAND DOESNT KISS ME WHEN HE GETS HOME ALL THE TIME EITHER BUT HE DOES KISS ME GOOD BYE IN THE MORING BEFORE HE LEAVES... ALWAYS.
AND HE SHOULD BE TAKING YOU WITH HIS FRIENDS AND THEIR G/F OR EVEN JUST HIS FRIENDS. TELL HIM I WANT TO GO OUT TOO AND I WOULD LIKE SOME KISSES EITHER BEFORE YOU LEAVE OR WHEN YOU GET HOME JUST TO SAY YOU CARE. LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL OR HE WONT KNOW.
2006-11-16 07:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not wrong, he should WANT to kiss you, tell him how you feel and if he still refuses give hime the boot, think about it, do you want to be with a man that doesn't enjoy kissing you for the rest of your life?
2006-11-16 07:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by AFwife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep kissing him and reminding him what you want him to do. He may have been raised different.
Find out what he likes best from you and tell him that's his reward for doing what you want.
2006-11-16 07:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guess your home with the kids? He should include you there. my husband kisses me as he leaves , not when he returns.
2006-11-16 07:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings are for losers. Just stick with hardcore sex and you'll be fine. No strings attached.
2006-11-16 07:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Flex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋