k i haved like this guy 4like ever & he doesnt like me back but in the past crushes when they say they dontlike me i usually move on but i cant with this guy i cheer for him homeroom with him and same frnz verywhere i go hes there?how do i move on i dont want to like him but i cant help it i am obsessed
2006-11-16 06:45:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give it time. You'll get over him.
2006-11-16 06:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about this person that attracts you? That would be the thing that holds your attention so deeply.
You say you don't want to like him! You say you can't help it, you're obsessed! If it is obsession, then you need to find other things and friends to fill your life and make a deliberate effort to put him out of your thoughts completely.
Get involved in programs and activities where he would not be and really give them your all - not him. Don't waste your space!
You probably have been let down one time too many and feel you have to make this one happen, come what may. But, that's a lie. You deserve to have a fulfilled life. Get on with it!
2006-11-16 14:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by SANCHA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows that this guy stands out from your other crushes. It's true that you have to give it time and he will go away. Time does pay off and once you realize it, you don't have feelings for him whatsoever. If he has friends and you see him all the time, let your mind think of something else that's important besides obsessing over him. Maybe you should start crushin on some other guys that you know that you would ever crush as you crush this guy. You should start flirting with one of his friends to see him get mad and jealous and maybe who knows he'll ask you out. And if he did and you still had feelings then you should say yes. You should focus on somethin more important than him. good luck
2006-11-20 12:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Calibabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find the answer tell me cuz i would really like to know
2006-11-16 14:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋