He would look just like a guy, live as a guy, but...well, still has female equipment down below. Would that bother you?
So...are you really attracted to the same GENDER or is your sexual orientation REALLY based on liking the same BIOLOGICAL SEX?
2006-11-16 06:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think it seriously depends on the guy and their pyschological attitudes towards their sexuality and preferences. For some gay men, the very thought of something that doesn't have a penis is not a man, and they can't get past that. Or they're scared it will make them less gay.
But I've heard the tale of a gay man who picked up a pre-op FtM at a bar and they proceeded to have vagainal sex- the FtM liked to be penetrated. The gay man felt momentary disorientation, but then looked down at this person who was grunting in a deep male voice, who was delightfully hairy and masculine, who smelled like a man . . . and realized that the experience was exactly the same, for him at least.
I don't fault anyone who needs biological sex and not just gender in order to be sexually aroused. I think most people need a mixture of both- a masculine male with a penis- but a lot of open-minded people enjoy the various mixtures they come in (as I do!). Yay for the gay men who accept FtM's as males and have relationships with them.
2006-11-16 07:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry there would have to be a penis down there! Female genitalia does not do a thing for me! Now if it was a complete transfer and there was a willie down there then I could do it!
2006-11-16 06:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi, so perhaps I don't count, but my last bf was female when we first started dating. He transitioned two months later.
When there was a need for 'equipment', his was store-bought.
Further, our gf, who did and still does consider herself straight, dated both of us (pre and post our bf's transitioning). The two of them are still together.
2006-11-16 06:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm seriously squicked by female squishy bits, and frankly, I'm not thrilled by the idea of a surgically created faux penis, either.
2006-11-16 07:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Throbington Steifenholz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not matter I do not think. As long as we were about to click. There would have to be some time of chemistry. Then there would have to be a degree of the both of us loving each other.
2006-11-18 20:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As open minded and accepting as i'm, i think of, sense, prefer my guy to have been born a male. there's a guy on the YMCA I used to pass to. I met him in the sauna of all places. in simple terms great small communicate. he's gay and form of lovable, in an off beat way. nicely, I found out he's FtM. (He grew to become into wearing boxers and analyzing a singular in the sauna, which no different men there do. He had mastectomy scares. And he grew to become into showering in a jock, with a poorly & oddly formed something in it). in the event that they attain the degree the place they can supply a FtM a set of totally function male junk, that is distinctive. yet until that element, i prefer him to have what God gave him. I in simple terms am no longer involved in something woman. i've got faith undesirable that i've got faith this form. yet i will't lie approximately what or who i'm involved in.
2016-10-22 05:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋