dear all...i love my brother's intimate friend for the past 9 yrs.before 3 yrs i chatted with him,then i called him once without telling my name.he recognised me n started to talk in chatting n in fone but i never told my name to him.this continued...n suddenly one day something hpnd n he stopped this.he started to advice me.he used to tell me tht he likes me.he also tells me tat hez not intrested with love.but i cant live a life without him.am in deep love with him.hez thinking that loving frd's sister is harm.is it wrong???????
2006-11-16 06:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by rani.... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Umm, you aren't nearly ready to get married.
1. Work on your basic literacy.
2. Remember this order: Meet, get to know, have mutual relationship, fall in love, THEN propose.
3. You have a crush on this guy. You'll get over it.
2006-11-16 06:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As painful as it may be, you have to accept the fact that he's not interested in love. Apparently, he just wants to be friends. You've become obsessed with the idea that you love him and can't live without him, but you know, this scenario is repeated at least several times a minute all over the world. Speaking of which, the world will not come to an end, and you will survive, mature and overcome this obsession.
Also, if I may make a suggestion, I would learn how to spell and use proper English. You'd be surprised how that will enhance your image to anyone you write to on the web. I know some of it is abbreviated web talk, and practically everyone on here does it, but it's very distracting to me. Has proper English become a lost art??
2006-11-16 06:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he doesn't think it's a good idea to date his friend's sister then you need to let it go. I'm sure you could live without him, you haven't had all this time and your obviously not dead. So, calm down, if he really wants to be with you, then he'll talk to your brother and make sure there's not a problem!! Don't stalk him!! Leave him alone until he makes a move, but if he doesn't then find a new guy!!
2006-11-16 06:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Amber R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys won't date their friend's sister because it will often ruin a friendship. No guy wants anyone kissing or more with their sister let alone their best friend. It seems to me that you brother's friend isn't willing to jeopardize his friendship for you. He doesn't feel as strongly for you as you do for him.
2006-11-16 06:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not love you, and he will never love you, because you can not spell.
Go outside. There are other guys in the world. you don't have to be all up on your brothers friends.......poor guys.
2006-11-16 06:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's turned off because he thinks you are miserly with everything just like with your letters in your words.
frd for friend? What is happening to this world?
2006-11-16 06:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋