Why would someone flirt with you if they don't really want to date them or have a relationship? And its not someone who is just flirty by nature?
two other things ..they are married, and supposedly straight.
2006-11-16 06:12:55 · 12 answers · asked by U2 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They want to know the door's open, should they choose to enter. I say this as a same-sex-married woman who occasionally flirts.
2006-11-16 06:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about validation and power baby.
I've noticed it happens a LOT in relationships. If two people are together, an outside person will try to flirt with one of the people involved in a relationship just to see if they can break them up. Then, when that person DOES leave their b/f or g/f to go after the person who was flirting with them, that person doesn't want them anymore.
It's all about the thrill, the chase, and ultimately knowing "hey, I still got it". It's about self validation.
2006-11-16 14:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I flirt with a lot of people. I do it a lot of the time without realizing it. Usually with girls though so I know to me it doesn't mean anything but they get led on a lot :D kind of amusing in a way.
I would say people can be flirty by nature doesn't necessarily mean anything though. They are just really comfortable with you so thats a good thing :D
2006-11-16 14:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly.2113 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? The person is married therefore OFF THE MARKET. Enjoy the flirting but that is all!
2006-11-16 14:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lotus is right-POWER!
I know a gal who flirts with EVERYONE and her partner just shrugs it off.
This type of person needs to feel that she, or he, can turn on the world. Whether they do or not is up for debate.
2006-11-16 14:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can either be curious or u just a target they just wanna play game and tease u and make u want them because they insecure they have to feel wanted.i can be like that sometime but i do be likin the person at least a lil i just be frontin.
2006-11-16 16:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Power, Manipulation, it is all just a game to some people!
2006-11-16 14:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your taking their friendliness the wrong way. Or maybe subconsciously they really are interested in you.
2006-11-16 15:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious but scared.
2006-11-16 14:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
POWER!!!! Flirt with someone and get them hot for you and walk away....POWER BABY!!!!!
2006-11-16 14:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋